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4/7/08 23:46
4/7/08 22:50
Thanks for your advice Sarah, I apreciate your message and I am not offended by it. I understand where you are coming from but I think the odds are still in my favour as I have not had 3 mc in a row. If i do have another mc then i suppose you will be able to say I told you so, but I suppose I am ready to take the risk.
I hope you do understand, I am not ungreatful and i do hope I get the tests done soon and that all is normal. I hope your tests turn out ok and that you get your little baby soon.
Look forward to getting to know you more.
charlotte
4/7/08 21:40
u should listen to the hospital and the specialist
they say it for a reason
i lost my ds on xmas day and was told to wait until i had all my tests dun
by the hospital within 5 weeks i had all results back apart from my 21 day ov which had don recent by my doc
the hospital will be checking u and your dp out for dif things and if there is a prob they will sort it for you
if you did go against them and you did fall preg they might not be able to complete the tests and u may go through the same again
i dont mean to be nasty and trust me i fully understand how much you would like a child
i am desperate for one
but i waited for my results because i was told to do so
its up to you what you do but you are goin against the advice of people who no what they are talkin about .
if you really want to start straight away speak to your doc but he or she will be in contact with your specialist and will only advise you the same
tell them you want the tests done asap and keep on to them i did and all mine were done and back in 5 weeks
it your choice and dont take what i have said the wrong way
please it not ment nasty i just say it cos been there
4/7/08 21:28
Hi Charlotte,
Yes you are in the right place hun and big hugs to you as its sounds like you have really been through it. Hopefully your next one will sticky for you.
As for tests I havent had them done so i cannot really advise you but i thought i would say hi.
I am sure someone here will be able to helpx
4/7/08 21:21
Hi All,
I have been on the ttc board and then saw this forum. I am not sure if it is ok for me to post on here. A little about me. I am 32 years old, In dec 04 I had my first mmc at 8 weeks then I had my second in sept 05 at 6 weeks I then had a successful pregnancy that gave me a lovely girl in July 06. I started trying for my second baby a few months ago and I have now had a mc in June at 4+5 and again in July at 4+5 days.
My GP has referred me to see a consultant to see what could be wrong and advised me to wait until i get tests done before I try again. DH and I have talked about it and we have decide to keep ttc as our daughter was third time lucky. As well, these tests always take forever and may not help anyway. I hope I won't uspet anyone but saying this but I can't help but feel that I may be waiting for nothing and wait time not trying. Ihope you understand what I mean. I just want another baby, i am greatful for my daughter and should nature decide otherwise then i will have to accept that somehow. But I need to do something, I can't just sit around waiting..
Sorry for blabbing on, I look forward to getting to know you all.
Charlotte
Ayup Charlotte, First let me say, What a lovely name......Thats my DD's name
. you are defo in the right place mate, mainly coz the women on here will know what you are going through and also we are VERY open and honest..........Even if sometimes the honest answer isn't what you wanna here, the answers the women give are in your best intrest iykwim 
plus LOU, has set up a GODSEND list of all the women saying their cycle day an informing us all of any BFP, I think it's called TTC for a 2009 baby or something very similar........put your details on their and she will add you......SHE IS VERY GOOD
anyway, I really hope that whatever you decide it works out and I look 4ward to chatting