Kerrie & SarahKate`s TTC & Moaning Thread...
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19/9/08 21:24
19/9/08 21:20
hello chick we was on page 3
hope your ok chick i have no credit so cant text you im well gutted. hope you have a nice birthday tomorrow as i wont be able to text and hopefully you will get my card, im still looking for a nice prezzy for you im so stuck. started my english course yesterday i cant wait gonna do some now, also got a positive opk, the ovulation line was darker than the control line so taking it as a good positive me hopes. hope your ok and your wounds are healing ok just take it easy at work when you start dont wont you off before you have even bagan properly, bet you cant wait to start on monday. anyway chick hope to hear from you soon big big hugs and take care have a nice birthday and get ross to give you a big sloppy kiss from me hehe 
17/9/08 12:58
just a bump hope your ok chick, sorry i havnt been on i have been busy with the boys and school and what not. hope your feeling ok will text you soon anyway
16/9/08 20:33
Sarah I am so upset for you I didnt realise they had taken your tube aswell, you have such amazing strength hun. A positive is that you wont have to wait too long for the IVF although I know by this point you want a baby right now 5-9mths is good my friend has just paid about £4000 for IVF as here it is 2yrs wait they were trying for 2yrs and she has fallen preg first try at IVF she is on here on fertility treatments her name is MRSCIVFDIARY she maybe able to help you with any IVF questions you have hun just say I told you to talk to her she is a good friend of mine.
I am excited had antinatal today, im bit nervous aswell, fear of the unknown thats all but ive found the whole pregnancy very worrying and ill feel much better once the baby is in my arms. It will be your turn soon honey I cant imagine how u feel right now and still your on here giving everyone else support your a very special lady Sarah xx
16/9/08 11:21
Yeah hun, sadly this pregnancy turned out to be another ectopic and they couldn't save my last tube
Was just absolutely soul destroying and heartbreaking. We got to 6 weeks this time and really truly thought this was our miracle baby, felt so different and was so ill with pg symptoms, but it wasn't to be, started spotting and getting bad pains a week last thursday and they got me right in for a scan and worst fears were confirmed. Had surgery that day, was just a blur tbh. So we now have 4 angel babies and I will never ever conceive naturally again 
so yeah hun IVF is our only option now sadly but have seen my GP and the wait for IVF in our area should only be 5-9 months. Doc wants me to have a good break for 3 months then we start off with preliminary tests in December and the wait for IVF should only be 5-9 months after that fingers crossed. Just trying to take each day as it comes hun, all I can do, trying to stay positive but it ain't easy obviously. I am still pretty sore from surgery but I have a new job to start next Monday and looking forward to that. Gonna be so so weird I won't be TTC or obsessing over opk's and ewcm and counting days, still cannot quite get my head round that, it has been my whole life for two years!Awww hun not long to go, bet you are getting excited hun! Do you know what sex you are having hun?
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16/9/08 10:26
Sarah im so sorry I just read your im home thread, oh i am so so sorry to hear you had another eptopic pregnancy hun that must be so heartbreaking I cant imagine, you are so strong. So is the next route IVF now? xx
16/9/08 10:18
Hi Sarah
Yes I am near my due date now 24days and counting lol!
Glad to hear you are well and staying strong hun im sure it will happen very soon for you ill keep my fingers crossed for you, all the best hun xx
16/9/08 08:48
Morning girls, hope evryone is well just bumping up our thread Kerrie hun, hope you are okay!
Poor dh hit a dog on his way home from work last night
What a state he was in so so upset. The poor wee thing just shot out into the road between two cars in the dark and dh never had a chance to stop or even break! He hit quite hard and the dog did get up and run away, but was limping really badly He went to the nearest police station to report it, and told them if they track down the owners (unless it was a stray dog) he wants them charged with animal cruelty, poor dog shouldn't have been running around at night alone!! How much more bad luck can we take eh!? I am feeling okay this morning though, dh and I FINALLY managed to dtd last night, very very gently as still sore but lovely, can't wait to feel even better so we can really go for it pmsl
sorry tmi lol but I am pleased lol!! It had been almost 8 weeks FFS lmao!!!Lotsa love to everyone xxxxxxxxxxxx
15/9/08 17:13
Bless You will get what you want you so deserve everything your heart desires.
I have to shoot now hun look afer yourself catch you soon ((hugs)) xx
15/9/08 17:06
Oh no hunnie absolutely not offended!!!! That's wonderful to hear I love to hear success stories - keep them coming I say lol!!!
I am keeping fingers crossed for twins tbh lol if all goes to plan and it works first time
Cos' after one successful go, then if you want any more kids you have to pay privately that can cost £4,000 - £8,000 !!! I always said that I wanted 3 or 4 kiddies and would never have just one!! xxxxxxxxxx
15/9/08 17:03
Im really looking forward to it me and df not had a holiday this year what with one thing and another mainly being broke! lol! Kids have been away Jammy things
xxYou and your dh will make wonderful parents can see you giving your children the world. My Auntie had Ivf I have a 12year old cousin hes great and very treasured. (hope that does not offend you hun I really am crap at words I do mean well but I normally put my foot in it somewhere sorry if I have) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
15/9/08 16:51
Aww that sounds like fun, think me and dh might do something like that, we have so much beautiful spots here in Scotland, especially up north in the highlands, will talk to dh about maybe doing something. I love the idea of romantic camp fires and toasting marshmallows lol! We really need a holiday tbh hun but can't afford it just now!
I have been to Cleethorpes lol! We went to the seaside there when visiting Kerrie (kerrrie on this thread!) and her fab family in Grimsby!! It was lovely, really great beside the seaside and loads to do like you say!
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15/9/08 16:46
We going to haven at cleepthropes was only 17.50 for 2 nights and they have lots to do for children so should be nice. We been camp site at skeg and thats it really me and df have been to festivals in our little 2 man tent and we got a 4 berth one but rabbits chewed thu it and you cant stand up in it and last time we used it ,it leaked in lol! So thought we would have a nice big new one so we can go more often
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ROFL PMSL!!!!!
That sounds like a plan lol!! I would love to go camping, dh is always on about it, says he can't wait to take our kids camping bless him. Where do you o camping hun?Aww you are a sweetheart, bless you hunnie
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15/9/08 16:34
Your very very welcome I do hope you like it, its not much but I thought it was thoughtful
If tent turns up tomo I will laugh about it if not im finding out where the postal bloke lives and going to erect my old tent where the sun dont shine lol! xx
15/9/08 16:30
Aww hunnie thank you so so much, you really shouldn't have
I don't have much faith in the postal service either lol
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15/9/08 16:28
Hi sarah just gatecrashing again I posted package this morn hun let me know it gets to you as I have now lost all trust in post people they sent my tent to someone eles and we go camping on Fri lol! xx
15/9/08 15:48
Just keeping us bumped Kerrie hun, know we are talking over the phone anyway so you know what's going on lol still hungover to bugger lol
serves me right though eh, self-inflicted!Hiya Karly hun how are you doing? You must be getting near your due date now hun? I am okay thanks, still coming to terms with things and and still not quite believing the situation we are in now
but taking each day as it comes and trying to stay strong hun, thank you for asking xxxxxxxxxxxx
14/9/08 15:37
Hi im gatecrashing just wondering how you are Sarah?
Karly x
14/9/08 11:10
Ah bless you chick, you are right to habg on as long as possible to test - nothing worse than testing early and getting bfn, you are best to wait if you can - good luck hun, have got everything crossed for you.
You have had a rough rough time of it hun but so glad to hear you are much happier where you are now. It just p*sses me off when bad things happen to good people and all the ar*seholes of the world seem to get everything handed to them on a bloody plate and have no problems in life or pop out babies no problem when they don't even want them or will look after them grrrr! Like my big brother for example, a complete waster, never worked a day in his life, lives off benefits and gets council houses handed to him and benefits to pay everything. He has a beautiful wonderful daughter (my neice I am so close to her and her Mum) he hardly ever see's and other kids (we don't know how many) he never see's or has anything to do with, ex-girlfriends who have had 5 or more abortions to him in the past. he just got given a brand new 2 bedroom house in a lovely area from the council, gets rent and council tax paid for him and he is doing odd jobs on the side getting cash in hand - cushty number eh!? And heres' us mugs skint and working our a*rses off to pay everything and struggling, may lose our house if we can't get it sold, going through all this sh*t....makes me so so mad.Anyway, that which does not kill us only makes us stronger eh? I am a believer in karma and what goes around comes around. We are still waiting for some good luck but hopefully that will come with IVF and eventually getting out of this house that I hate!
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omg im a tit i have only just seen your other thread im so sorry im a dipsh!t, right ill bugger off now lol