You are in the right place hun cuz we are all a bit mad in here he he.

Honestly we are all here day or night for you anytime you need a chat, the girls are great on here.

Shell xx.

thankyou so much hun you have helped me so much already being here now, this is the first i have talked to anyone about how i feel because i thought that people would think im going mad, but i understand other ladies are in the same boat as me as well and is so nice to know you guys are here for me to talk to x

I hope it does bring you good luck hunnie, were all here if you need us, always rem that

thankyou hun for your thoughts will try to do this hopefully will bring me good luck hey?

Hun i know its a hard thing to do, its almost a yr since my mc and i never thought id still be here ttc, i expected to have a baby by now but i know if i let it get to me then my body will just shut down and then il never get preg, just you keep thinking what would your baby want you to be doing, if your little angel could say 1 thing to you it would be...mummy please be happy (((((hugs)))))

Shell xx.

It's not so much as moving on, as accepting what has happened, you can't go back, you can't change anything, it will always be with you.

But looking back will only cause heartache and pain, try and look forward, not always easy, but once you start looking forward and not back, you start to learn to live with it.

Good luck xxxxx

Thankyou so much for your comments ladies moving on is the answear to my problem i know but is such hard thing to do x

Its hard isnt it.  Im sure all the girls on here will understand where your coming from.  I mc at 7wks I was devastated. dh didnt really show me how sad he was but he did say he broke down and i know that he talked to my friend about it.  Sometimes its hard to talk to those really close to you.  Its surprising how many plans you make in a couple of mths.  I know what you mean about pg all around you, my sister is din and my friend has the same due date as I would have had shes due 21 feb and everytime i see her its a reminder of what i should be like now.  Whenever I see a newborn I fill up. Try to look after yourself and  keep yourself busy with other matters.  Try not to dwell too much (easier said than done i know) but thats often when a pg can happen.xxxx

Hi hun, i have lost 4 babies and i know its hard....

Please dont take this the wrong way but you have to let go, you will never forget your baby, it will always be inside your heart to the day you die, do you think your little baby would want to see you so unhappy...no it wouldnt, it would want you to be happy and to see you getting on with things

Your body isnt ready for another pregnancy yet hun because your head isnt, when you sort your head out then the rest will follow.

I hope i havent upset you or anything hun, im just trying to help (((((hugs)))))

Shell xx.

Hi ladies havent posted on here now for a few months,  lost my baby last year at 2 months in august  has been just over a year now and i still can not get over this

I try so hard to put it to the back of mined but whenever someone has had a baby our hear a freind is pregnant i just break down, the only person i speak to about this i smy sister thats all can not even talk to my husband cause do not want thim to know i am not over this, we have been trying again ever since i lost baby but with no good news

Do you ladys think it is still normal for me to be feeling this way i cry everytime i think about this and do not feel i can move on x