Hi Sarah

I'm sure you will return to read all the well wishes so I just wanted to add to them.

When I came to this site a month ago I posted lots of questions and you were always the first to answer. I am extremely grateful for that as we all come here in an emotional and confused state and to have someone like you there to help us is a god send.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart and good luck with whatever the future brings.

Sarah

ah hun i couldnt not post after reading this so i'm going to ignore that bit of your post lol.

i'm so sorry to hear your putting your ttc plans on hold. i hope your dh gets better soon. jsut concentrate on him for now sweetie and who knows maybe one day soon you'll be back on here and get that much wanted bfp.

((((((((((hugs)))))))))) to you all. take care. will miss you hun! x

Hey Sarah  Like the others have pretty much said, thanks for your time, company and support . Jury's still out on my implantation / appendicitis....but it was probably something and nothing!! 

I hope there's a time in the near future when you're oh will feel better within himself and you can continue ttc. It is a very unselfish act that you are doing and incredibley sensible. I'll miss you on here. Drop in every once in a while to tell us how things are going with you.

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I did leave you message on ttc, but i really hope you have a quick nose to check this thread.... i totally & utterly respect your reason for leaving but i will miss you loads hun. and i have kept you on 2ww list anyway, just in case you change you mind hun.....

huge ((((((( hugs))))))))) for you... and wishing you all the very best for the future...... still miss you though...

Sarah i have just found this...hunnie im sorry you are leaving, i do hope you and your dh will be ok, you will be in my thoughts (((((hugs)))))

I will take your name of the list for now but i hope to see you back here very soon

Lots of love

Shell xx.

Sarah I left for a month and then came back hope you do too. It's not over just taking time out.... see you soon.

Sarah (sazzy)

You will read this hunny, you will pop back at some time, I hope you both change your mind when things get a little easier for you both, you have a heart of gold, all your posts show concern for others.

I would like to thank you for all your support, you are a diamond hunny, don't let this little set back get you down, it's just on teh back burner for a littel while hunny.

I pray we will see you back ttc soon.

Take care sweet.

Lisa XXXXXX

Ahhh Sarah sweetie, I know you have said not to reply but I couldn't not reply - even if you don't see it I am doing out of respect - will also PM you my mobile number and hope you get it!!!!

I know it's so so hard hun, bless you, but if you and dh are doing the right thing for eachother then that is good. I understand how hard it is to make a decision like this, me and dh have been there too (though when we did we ended up falling pg by "accident" sadly that was my 2nd mc but anyway...) I think you are right to concentrate you efforts on getting hubby better, I suffer terribly with depression and anxiety with panic attacks in the past, it is horrible and I am so glad your hubby has your support and love at this time. He will also be supporting you hun, and you will be there for eachother. Please hun though, you don't have to leave here completely - you can still come back and see us all and keep in touch??? I am not technically TTC and won't ever be again except when it comes to IVF, I felt a bit weird being here as will never be doing the TTC with the opk's and the counting and all that - but I know I can't be away from here right now. So think about it hun - as I said I will pm you my mobile and email details and please please keep in touch sweetheart, you have been such a wonderful support to me - more than you will ever know. I truly wish you every success with everything hun and hope that your dh can recover and get feeling better soon

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I am so sorry Sarah, I couldn't just read and run. I know you said no replies but i want to wish you all the best and hope your dh gets better soon. I know where he is coming from I suffer from a depressive illness too.

Charlotte

awww hun i know u said u wasnt coming back and not to reply, but what a lovely post, i have tears in my eyes. Im so sorry your having a tough time but you and ur hubby are right to sort things out first. i wish you both all the luck in the world for when then time is right to come back, take care hunni xxxx

Hi girls, well I have just had a long hard conversation with my hubby and we have come to a difficult conclusion, I dont know if I mentioned it before but my hubby suffers with depression and anxiety really quite bad and these last few months I have been so wrapped up in ttc that I have neglected him, and he has started  to slip back into a depressive state,  Starting af today and seeing his face prompted the conversation, and we have decided that it really would not be fair to bring a baby into our lives while my hubby is ill, So I need to say goodbye to you lovely ladies, Sorry Ropy and Bex cant join you for now, Lisa I pray everything turns out well for you love, Crei I really hope it is implantation cramps hun, SarahKate I hope you find the strenght to carry on to ivf and get the babies you so deserve, Pink thanks for the list and encouragement, Shell Thanks for the list and advice, Sarah and Charlotte best wishes girls and everyone else thank you soooooo much for all the help and support given over the last four months I wouldn't of come this far with out it. Sorry to Ramble!!! Please dont reply to this post I'm not coming on any more, but maybe in the future if all goes well I'll come back, hope none of you will be here!!!!!!(in the nicest way!!))LOTS OF LOVE GIRLS take care.  {bd]

Sarahxxxxx