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27/9/08 17:32
26/9/08 14:16
good luck with the dr and it is really hard, i went to have my mc comfirmed and although i knew i'd passed the baby. i broke down when the dr said that all his tests were neg and there was no baby, its horrible to hear so ill be thinking about you next week xx
and there are plenty of months to get pg, and you can also give your body a bit more time to heal.
im not married yet, we are planning to get married in march 2010. cant wait i have my dress already . are you married??? how long have you been together?? and how long you been ttc??
ive been with him for 6 years now i have a 6 year old from a previous relationship and a 1 yearold together. he also has a daughter whos 15 years old.
26/9/08 13:13
Pretty much the same time as me then as i ovulate on tuesday. well sending loads of
your way for the weekend.Nah i'm still bleeding so i may not get chance this time round. Got to go for my bloods on tuesday to make sure baby is all gone and a scan on thurs.
In a way i am hoping that they were wrong but i have got it in my head now that may will not be my month to have a baby but there are plenty more months out there.
Are u married? How long u been with ur partner?
xoxo
26/9/08 10:36
hiya,
im glad you got work sorted glad they are looking after you xx
well i normally ov on cd14 but i think its easier to catch if you bd on cd13 my theory anyway, so that would make it bding sunday and sat hopefully, ov on monday.
has af eased up??? how long are your cycles??
26/9/08 10:23
Morning Bex,
Afternoon with mil was a nightmare.
I didn't tell her tho. Couldn't be bothered with her making it all about her. I no she may have a right to know but it's not like i was that far gone.
Hows your preparing going? What date are you ovulating if u don't mind me asking? (I'm sure you've said in the past but can't read the other posts while writing this.)
Phone and told work what happened and she is letting me go bk next week part time so that's good.
xoxo
25/9/08 12:48
if she will be supportive then maybe it would be a good idea, as i know it can be lonely when you have a early mc. but only tell her if your happy with that.
rite lo awake got to get motivated and start tyding up, wat joy lol
i hope the afternoon with mil goes well xxxx
25/9/08 12:36
No not bk at work yet. Prob wont go bk until monday.
I got loads of house work to do. I let it slip bad but it's understandable.
mother in law is coming over in abit and she'll ask why the house isn't tidy as i'm not at work. we have decided not to tell her but maybe we should.
What do u think?
xoxo
25/9/08 12:08
housework housework and more housework, ive let slip abit so got some catching up to do.
wat about you ?? are you back at work yet??
25/9/08 12:06
I find that mentioning it ruins the moment and then my df feels like i'm using him just to get pregnant.
U got much planned for today?
xoxo
25/9/08 11:34
yea sounds nice, im also not going to let df know im ov, he will guess lol but i wont mention it.
25/9/08 11:31
lol. the witch bit made me laugh.
We used to have quite an active sex life but it obviously died when i found out i was pregnant as docs said to not do it until i have got pasted the first 8 weeks as i had cramping right at the beginning.
Think i am going to just do everything differently and make more effort and have nice meals with a glass of wine and have candles etc just to make it feel special.
xoxo
25/9/08 11:24
df feels the pressure too, we dont have a extremely active sex life so it can feel a bit forced sometimes, but this month im gonna make more of an effort and maybe have a drink lol
i hope the witch leaves you soon, nick her broom stick so she dont come back lol
25/9/08 10:50
It's cloudy here.
No worrys about yesterday i wasn't on much longer as i went out for a meal at 7.
I am feeling like that too. I'm still bleeding tho so we can't start yet. Also i dont want my df to think i only wanna be doing it just to get a baby. I want him to feel like i mean it too as if i don't catch then it's not the end of the world and we've had fun trying. How does ur dh feel?
xoxo
25/9/08 10:13
hi emma, sorry didnt get back on yesterday kids kept me busy.
how are you feeling today??
im on cd10 so gotta start bding soon, im getting quite nervous sooo much pressure on my self to get pregnant.
got loads of housework to do, chnaging beds day today and it raining great.
has af left yet????
25/9/08 09:09
Morning Bex,
How are u today?
xoxo
24/9/08 15:17
Film was great.
Have only just finished the avon un packing. Can't believe it's 20 past 3 already.
U been busy?
xoxo
24/9/08 10:54
my dp is the same he hates the soap run haha
i love that film popcorn at the ready lol
24/9/08 10:48
Bridget Jones: The edge of Reason. I saw the first one but not this one and it's quite funny so far.
I have got the sex in the city movie too so i will watch that later.
I sorted in the evening from 5.30 until 9 or 8pm depending on what day it is for soaps. DF gets well annoyed some evenings as he doesn't like them. But oh well. We have a tv he can watch upstares. hehe
xoxo
24/9/08 10:43
aww neighbours was sad, im so glad they got married, i love soaps and in the afternoon i like to watch the true movies channel cry loads when its about kids. gonna have a bath and wash me hair i think.
enjoy your films which ones you watching???
24/9/08 10:35
I'm a sales leader now and the plan was that i would give up full time work when i had the baby and kept doing avon. I earn quite abit now from doing it.
I qutie enjoy seeing all the products and then if i like them i bk order them for me. so i get to see them before i buy them.
I watching films on tv all day. Anything sad makes me cry but i surpose that's going to be normal for a few weeks.
Even neighbours last night had me in tears.
I'm a soap addict. hehe
u like them?
xoxo
hiya hope your ok hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx