Liane, I've had the MC tests myself and unfortunately the thing that is wrong with me can't be treated, it's just a 50-50 chance of MC each time and feeling uncertain unless I have invasive tests so I think the fact that your tests have come back negative is a very good thing. You sound like you will be well looked after and aspirin may do the trick for you. Once you get PG again, you will feel a bit better when you get past the stage of your latest MC and see the HB and will feel even better when you get past 12 weeks.  You have a lovely DD already so you know you can do it. Maybe your body does need a rest and you've been unlucky. Good luck to you, hope you get a very sticky bean soon x

By the way Liane - she is a gorgeous girl!!

xx

Tobyrose it will happen for you huni, just give it time and will happen when ur body is ready to hold onto that little baby for you. xxx

Thanks for the advise Laura i know ur right and thats the best thing for my body so im gonna do it this time as really cant face another mc.

Although i had 2/3months break between mc number 2 and 3 and it still happened. I know that doesnt mean anything as each preg is different but im hopefull for next prenancy to go to term!

I have a gorgeous dd who is 19mths, so i know its poosible to get preg and carry a baby to term, maybe all i need is a little rest in between.

lots of for us girls.

Liane

Can I maybe offer a suggestion?  If you think about it, actually getting pregnant is when the sperm meets the egg and fertilises - so this part is almost separate from holding onto a baby - i.e. it happens outside of the womb.  When we miscarry the womb sheds its lining (as in an af) and everything else - which I believe can take a couple of cycles for the lining to then build up again - so it may be that not having a gap between a m/c and getting pregnant simply does not allow your womb time to build up that level again.

My sil has just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks - she conceived only 8 weeks after giving birth and the docs think it was just too quick.

The good news is that it at least shows you are fertile and can conceive naturally - it maybe just means you need to leave it a few cycles to get extra thick and cosy!!

HTH?

L+P xx

glad to hear all is okay, It's just going to take a little longer than you first thought, not to worry it will be fine. I've been trying for three months but haven';t used anything since March so I'm strating to wonder if my body doesn't want me to get pregnant..

Liane, best of luck with the ttc...xx

Thanks girls. Sorry you got the same results joolie but its good in a way for us, at least we dont have anything wrong that is causing it.

Ive been told i can have weekly scans too, im also gonna take the 75mg aspirin again, although i dont have the clotting disorder it cant do any harm.

Gonna ttc again after my next period in oct, hopefully i will fall quickly again and it will be a keeper! 

Fingers crossed for us next time.

Liane

Hi honey, well I got exactly the same results back and I know that it's probably not the answer you were looking for... it's kind of a relief but agony at the same time.  We've been trying again since May and have been told to take a low dose aspirin and will get weekly scans in our next pg.

It helped me to think of my little girl as being perfect in every way, just unable to cling on.  I conceived my little girl the same month I lost my other baby so I do believe that bodies need time to heal in between

Oh sorry hun I understand what you mean at least if there was something wrong it could get fixed iykwim,  Maybe you should let your body have a rest but I dont under as well if you are managing to get pregnant? our bodies are very bloody strange and confussing things, all the very best wishes hun hope you get our bfp soon hun.

Sarahxxx

and they are all perfectly fine. Im a little as i thought i might have got some answers but suppose in a way its also good that i dont have anything wrong with me, just so frustrating wondering why its happening again n again!!

They did a full blood count too and thats also perfect-super healthy person here lol!! She seems to think i might just not be giving enough time between loses and my body isnt ready to accept the pregnancy, i cant understand that though, surely if i wasnt ready then i wiouldnt get pregnant in the first place????

Got af at the mo so might have one more cycle n then try angain n hope for the best! Fingers crossed.

Liane