Lost my baby in July 07 at 34 weeks now due in July 08
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31/5/08 16:06
29/5/08 17:50
Went to see the Consultant and he's brought my CSection a week forward so 12 days to go..... I'm so pleased yet so terrified arggggggggggghhhhh.
19/5/08 10:16
Thanx for the reassurance bumpyspoon.... it's strange cause I was talking to my husband about if I had a time machine what would I do, would I go back and change things? Then this little boy wouldn't be on the way.... it's soooo difficult to think about.
I'm 34 weeks tommorow, the same stage we lost MIa... I've got a doppler and I can feel him moving but I still can't believe he will be here via C section in 29 days, 4 weeks tommorow. Mia had had a scan only 1 week before we lost her and everything had been fine so I don't trust anything at the moment.
Roll on 29 days.... counting down
14/4/08 15:48
I'm really saddened to hear of your loss, I totally understand all your fears anxieties and worries, I have a similar story which hopefully will give you some hope. My 1st Daughter (due 27.7.06) was born at 41 weeks died suddenly just 7 hours after her birth on 3rd August 2006. I became pregnat soon after with my 2nd Daughter who was due on also due on 27 july. I had a scary pregnancy but had an elective c section on19th july 07. Faith is now a happy healthy 9 month old and we are so lucky to have her. We desparately miss our baby who died but in a weird way (that you will soon understand) we now accept thet if she hadnt died we wouldn't have her sister Faith.
I know too well that noone can say the right thing or make the promise that you baby will be ok but, sometimes you just have to keep on believing that everything will be ok.
8/4/08 10:51
First of all so sorry to hear of your loss.
As for the c-section date, talk to your consultant as hospitals can be understanding about the date being too emotional too special. It makes no difference to them to do it a day earlier or later but might make you feel a lot better about things.8/4/08 08:36
Congratulations of the birth of your babies ladies xx I can't wait to be posting that on here xxxx take care
Carla 28 weeks today
5/4/08 22:48
hey
i wrote on ere think it was the end ov last year thought i wud update u !
i had a stillborn in aug 2006 then miscarriage in april 07
ive just given birth 2 a little girl lacey-rae on the 12 feb 08
so after all the bad things that we go through it just shows that gud things happen to
xxclaire n lacey-raexx
5/4/08 09:21
hiya to everyone, i had my son dylan 4th april 2007, he was born at 25 wks and lived for 87 mins, i knew i wanted to try for another baby and got pregnant pretty quickly, my daughter phoebe grace was born 3 wks ago and i couldnt be happier with her. it would have been dylans 1st birthday yest and i still miss him terribly, but havin phoebe has helped me cope with not havin him with me (only abit though). good luck to you all and your babies x
3/4/08 02:49
Hiya ladies, I had the most terrible nightmare last week... everything happened again and my husband had to wake me crying in my sleep... I was in a right state for the next day... I can't believe how scary this is
Good Luck xxxxx and take care xxxx
Carla 27 weeks
2/4/08 18:40
Hi,
My first posting on the this website was the one i sent the other week. I understand what your feeling and hope that we could share stories some time!
31/3/08 22:04
Hi there This is the first time I have come on this site since my last pregnancy I lost my little girl at 23 weeks and 4 days. My little girl was called May as she was born in May 07 and she lived for 2 hours, I will treasure always. I am now 31 weeks pregnant and due in May, my husband and I our getting very excited, but also scared. I hope everything goes well for you, just think positive.28/3/08 18:39
Hi there i just wanted to congratulate you and hope that all is going well and as everyone has probably already said but i have been through the same i lost my little boy at 30 weeks last june we called him thomas afer his dad and we found out that i was expecting again on new years eve and i am due on 9th september this year so we are worried!
i hope all goes well for you!
17/3/08 18:21
Thanx ladies....
This little one is sooooo wriggly, I don't think he ever stops moving, it's really strange and he's making it difficult not to fall in love with him x
16/3/08 20:46
Hi Carla, another DIS mummy - wishing you lots and lots (and all you other mummies to be) of love, and luck. thinking of you, Good Luck with everything and don't forget to pop in and let us know how it goes!
16/3/08 20:36
hey carla i remember you from my DI board. Just wanted to say huge congrats on your news and am keeping everything crossed for you
16/3/08 17:26
Hello all just wanted to post because your all in similar circumstances. Last year on 3rd September I had 2 beautiful little boys who were 1lb 7 and 1lb 10.5oz, they were amazing but on 4th September we sadly lost them. Im not 16 weeks tomorrow and have been given the due date of 1st September this year. It hurts sometimes to think that i should be celebrating my boys 1st birthday, but im taking it as a sign that Leland and Brandon are watching over this one (which i also think is a boy) and keeping him safe.
I hope everyones ok doing ok. So far ive had no symptoms and was starting to worry until last week when i met with the midwife and she found the heartbeat straight away.
Best of luck to everyone.
xxxx
11/3/08 13:07
change of name by the way but still me carlajayne
24 weeks pregnant today.... OMG I can't believe it
I don't know if it gets scarier now or easier.... Scarier I think because I'm beginning to feel attached to this little boy, I can feel him so much now and he moves around much more than Mia did. I tried not to get excited but I can't help imagining a real baby here with us in June when I have been offered a C-Section.
Hope your all ok and getting through the scary times xx Best Wishes xx Carla
13/1/08 19:49
Hi carla Jayne - I remember you as you were on DIS with me and at the same stage of pg as me - I am so pleased to find you are expecting again and really wanted to wish you all the best. I expect you are extremely anxious but you will find lots of support on here.
so - best of luck to you and all the others on this thread and baby glue to all
13/1/08 13:23
Good Luck Saf and Jack...
It doesn't matter how much further on I still can't believe this will end happily, I occasionally get waves of excitement when I imagine a real baby, but then quickly put it out of my mind, it's too crazy to even contemplate. The road is long and hard ahead and we hope for a special light at the end of our tunnels xxxxx
9/1/08 14:36
Hi to all you lovely ladies,
i lost my son at 25 wks on the 6th july 07 he passed away shortly after birth. i'm now 12wks and my due date is the 20th july. because i had a classical c-section (upside down t shape) i cant hav a vbac and my c-section has been planned for 6th july 08. i'm not really sure what i feel some days it's like no that is a special day for our son and then some days i want his bro/sis to share his b'day. i have to try and get that far first!!
my last pregnancy was full of complications and i will be on cmplete bed rest this time so unfortunately more time to stress and think about nothing but the pregnancy.
i didnt realise this site was so useful and i regret not having used it last time. in a strange sort of way reading every one elses posts give so much strength and support.
i wish you all a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby with longe life, prosperity and happiness.
take care
saf x
im counting down those days with u hun..!!
thinking of you lots.
love K
xxxxxx