thankyou for your reply i am so sorry for all your losses and do hope that you continue on to have another healthy pregnancy, it is so difficult to get past a point where you have had a loss for me at least i know at my 21 weeks scan if all is well then all i have to do is get to 39 weeks. Good luck for the future xxxxxx

Hi hun

Sorry for your loss.

Its hard isn't it when you hear about something similar to your exspirence it brings it all back. I have lost a beatiful baby boy Jake at 22wk and then lost my lovely daughter Madison at 29wk and then also lost another ds Luke at 17wk ,it was not anything like what happened to you the problem is with me . I have had a tough time but thankfully have my dd who is wonderful help me pull myself togther last time. I am 13wk now and feel really positive most of the time but have days when I convince myself it will happen again. I hope you start to feel better soon hun.tc m

HI just thought i would come on and have a chat with people who understand a loss, i lost Callum at 21 weeks due to spina bifida and miscarried last year. I am now 19 weeks and have come over from dis as there is a lady there who has had her scan and a possible result that the baby has spina bifida and just so feel for her and her family. We haven't heard anything yet as to whether it has been confirmed but hope for her it was just a scare. I so far cross fingers have no signs from that there is anything wrong this time so lets hope but just feel low and tired i think. Hope everyone else is doing well and we all have happy healthy pregnancy's and babys too

helen xxx