Im sooo with you becky! Im currently just over 5 weeks pregnant after a 5 year gap (I mc 5 years ago in the 9th week) and im so scared of it happening again! We have been trying again ever since and this is the first time ive actually missed a period and had a positive test since then.

I have a son of 7 who is totally on the ball and has worked things out but im dreading things going wrong and keep having to tell him the test might be wrong to try and minimise his upset should things go wrong again!

I HATE this next few weeks of waiting until I can be scanned :-( but even so I dont think im EVER going to relax with this pregnancy.

Tinx xx

Hi Camilla,

I am also due in January, the 11th '09. I am really worried now though. My symptoms have been reducing or even disappeared. I have been ttc for 5 years and got pregnant and miscarried in 2005. I am still not believing my BFP as I am sooo afraid of the same thing happening again. I have read lots of blogs and spoken to the Fertility unit Nurses to get help they say if you are not spotting or bleeding with excruciating pain wait until the scan.I'm thinking i'll go nuts before then. By the way I got pregnant outside of treatment. Which is good news, but worry has me not counting my blessing yet. I hope all turns out well and we can keep each other sane until we have our babies(listen to me)

Hi

I'm too in the same situation Me and DH got our BFP in Oct 07 but at our 12 week routine dating scan we were told baby had no heratbeat and I had suffered a MMC and baby had stopped growing at 9+5 we were devestated. I then opted to have an ERPC and have been trying to conceive ever since so when I got a BFP on Moday we were so pleased but I can't help this will happen again. I don't have any children but this is my 2nd pregnancy. Sorry to have gone on  but  I would to talk to anyone in a similar situation . My new EDD is 22nd Jan 09

Luv Camilla xxx

hi girls, perfect subject for me and glad to relate to you becky. im still only 19 but so ready as me and my other half have been trying since september but had my mc 1st of march at 9weeks what a killer. and im so thrilled to be sitting here typing that so soon after im seven weeks tomorrow and got my first ever midwife appointment monday so excited. but to be fair i am so scared inside and everyday feels like a milestone for me as this is my first and dont want to go through the same thing as before. although they have estimated id be due 3rd of jan 2009 ill know more at my scan though. good luck babe take care.  Sherrie xxx

hiya hun I am sharon I am 26 and I am mummy to 5 ...I lost a baby in Feb and I am now due agiain dec/jan ...don't know my dates yet due to not having af since mc  

Hi i'm Becky (2  married to Paul (27) we have a beautiful son Hames (18 months). We started TTC No2 last sept and got a BFP 1st cycle but unfortunately MC in Dec 07.  We got our 3rd BFP in May 08 and am currently 4wks 6 days and scared stiff i'll MC again.  Anyone want to hang out with me?????