I think the thing with havin a m/c is that it never really leaves you or at least not for many years after when you have had all the children you want and gone thru the highs and lows of pg. I have a dd who is 4, I had 2 m/c last year one at 12wks and the other at 7.

Its hard to know what to say that will reassure you. I can't say don't worry as you're bound to esp given your previous but worrying won't chg anything. I am 33+2 now and altho things are progressing nicely and there's not long left i still have my moments of panic that its gonna go wrong especially as it was a yr ago y'day that i was in hosp having my d&c, its kinda bought back that horrible time. it was only really after my 20wk scan that i felt able to let my head and heart believe i was pg, up until then altho i felt as rough as hell i didn't allow myself to connect with the baby which i feel really sad about. I still probably don't feel quite the same as i did when pg with my dd, apart from when bubba is movin arnd i don't think too much about it , I have nothing ready yet and maybe thats part of it.

Have faith and believe that things will be ok, relax and look after yourself. Its good to talk about it too, do you know anyone else that has had a m/c? M/w's can be understanding but also a bit matter of fact about these things the people that relate best you are those that have been thru it themselves. Take care and i hope all goes well x

i realy feel for you, i know exactly how worring it can be like you i lost 2 babies late i pregnancy and when i became pg again i was at my wits end and it is ifficult to be positive, but  now have 2ds and 1dd, i know its impossible but try and relax talk to your midwife about your worries.  I so hope all goes well for you xxx

Well im 15+1 and am still soooo scared of something bad happening, im really trying to stay positive but its just so hard!! !  I lost my 1st wee1 at 19wks and 2nd at6 i just want to get to 20wks maybe ill start to relax a little if i do.  Does it get easier?