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24/5/08 16:39
23/5/08 14:52
hun the any pregnancy following a mc is a worrying one especially on straight after like you are in at the moment.
i dont think any of us can say anything that will help you as you know yourself you will worry until you are holding your baby.
i fell pg with my now 10 month old dd 3 weeks after having a mc and the worry was awful throughout the pregnancy but every step was a milestone and every milestone brought less worry so dont feel you are going to be like this forever.
i am now pg again and its less worrying that last time around although i did get loss of symptoms around 7-10 weeks which worried me but after seeing all the posts in my due in forum from women with exactly the same loss of symptoms i worried less and realised its all part of a normal pregnancy.
congrats on your pregnancy hun and try to enjoy it as much as you can.
mara x (21+1wks no.5)
23/5/08 13:39
First of all BIG HUGS, my heart goes out to you. I had a miscarriage in 2005, then got pregnant in 2007 and now have an adorable baby boy who is 4 months old. I was exactly the same as you and worried all the time about everything. The only advice i could give you is relax, theres a lot to be said for positive thinking. If you convince yourself things will go wrong you'll get yourself into a state and that isnt good for you or baby. I really hope everything goes well for you huny, good luck xxxx

23/5/08 13:39
you are always going to wry about went wrong last time is going to happen again i do all the time but ive worked out the best thing you can do is just relax and try and enjoy it. x
23/5/08 13:32
hi everyone, i had a mc 6 mths ago n am now 8 wks preg. im sooo worried though again not many symptoms of preg again like my mc somtimes feel sick but not sick like my 1st succesful pregnancy. and not got app to see midwife until 4th june. im going on hols mon and dont really wanna worry any suggestions?? thanks ladys hope u all well xx





Sorry I'm not so good with advice but wanted to let you know I feel almost exactly the same. Just take it one day at a time and focus on getting through each week, every day is a step closer to bubs arriving x