Hi

I sufferd a stillbirth at 32 weeks last novemeber and I am now 22 weeks pregnant and have just had a 20 week scan where everything was fine but I have had many days where ive felt guilty about loving this baby and having another baby incase my daughter thought I was replacing her or didnt love her. But I have come to realise that she would have wanted me to be happy and she does know that no one will ever replace her. Its not easy but your child will be happy that you are happy don't feel guilty try to enjoy the pregnancy as much as you can! Im sure your child will be very happy to be having a brother or sister.

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Good luck with your pregnancy xx

Hi there,

I lost my last baby at 9 weeks just before xmas, but was lucky enough to fall pregnant again and i am now 18 weeks. The last few days though i keep getting tearful about the baby i lost and feelinga bit guilty about enjoying this pregnancy and looking forward to this baby when i should be coming nearer to the end of that pregnancy (was due early July) I dont know if this makes sense to any of you, just needed to let it out really as dont feel i could talk to anyone about it.