hi hon i gues it depends on how you think he will react whether you want to wait until tues ish when you can test for pregnancy, obviously avoiding sex til then, if you are now off the pill.

at least when you have some answers you can talk about something rather than stressing with him over what ifs, although it isnt your fault that you have got pregnant whilst on the pill, and you shouldnt really be stressed and feeling guilty.

it might be worth on monday ringing your gp for an appt later on in the week so that you will have a positive or negative test by then and if its negative you can discuss your problems with the pill and how you felt pregnant, and maybe other more sure-fire contraceptives (or send you other half in for the snip! lol )

and obviously if it is positive then you can discuss that with your gp too.

god i bet you re stressed out of your box right now, but i think you just have a bunch of what ifs at the moment, and hopefully things will be clearer when you know one way or another

xxx

let us know how you get on, how its going

x

Hi there, thought I'd post on here as I'm not ready to discuss this with anyone at home, but need to get things off my chest.

I miscarried an unplanned pregnancy in March of this year.  Once my body returned to normal I went on the pill which I have taken religiously every morning.  For the last 10 days however, everything in my body has been screaming pregnancy to me.  I'm exhausted, my boobs feel like they're going to explode...etc.

I stopped taking the pill after a few days of feeling like this as I didn't want there to be any interactions if I am pg.

I would normally be expecting my af on Tuesday coming but am convinced it won't arrive.

Don't feel like I can mention this to my partner as I know he doesn't want anymore children - we already have 3 beautiful daughters 22mths, 4 & 5.  Bought a test today which is hidden in my knicker drawer for the time being.  Might do it in the morning.

If I am pg do I tell him and risk causing a lot of upset when I could mc again anyway (have had 3 to date)?  Feeling caught between a rock and a hard place just now and don't even have a confirmation!

Sorry for going on, just needed to let it all out!