Hi Katy, of course I remember you! That is a great idea, I've replied to your message and the other thread x

Hey Amber!

How you feeling?  Not sure if you remember me for TTCAL?

Well just wondered if you would like to be Pg after loss buddies?  I'm 5 + 4 today (my latest update is on 'psssstttt, Katybelle?' thread in this forum).

I'm pg after 3 losses and so want this little bean to make an effort and end up been a take home baby.

let me know what you think

Hugs, Katy xx

HI i'm 16+weeks pregnant after 4 mc last year, i still can't believe i've got this far although it hasn't been without complications been diagnosed with a cervical ectropian which means i bleed if i do too much, even now i know why i'm bleeding whenever i see the blood i think here we go again!!!  I too had regular scans every 2 weeks untill 12 weeks but can get checked whenever i want!!  I don't think i'll completely relax untill i can feel proper kicks i feel flutterings every now and then but can't wait for definate kicks maybe then i can enjoy this pregnancy a bit more!!

Thank you, I remember you both from TTCAL too!

Jen, 32 weeks wow, that's seems to have gone so quickly!

Vicki, how many weeks are you now?

Well, my nausea set in a bit stronger yesterday at 6+1 and it's the same today so feeling a bit more confident, taking each day as it comes, then each half week, then full week etc.

I did think about paying for a private scan in a week as 1 week doesn't seem too long to wait compared to 2 weeks but we will see how I feel over the next few days or so. 

Just got to keep thinking, the Cons said I had a viable PG so unless I have anything to worry about (bleeding, loss of symptoms etc.) I will *try* not to worry! Although I am just keeping neutral at the moment and not too attached as don't want to be again if it does go wrong again.

Thanks again girls, best of luck to you both x

Hi there!!!   I remember you from TTCAL too!  Congratulations

I too, haven't really got that much advice or tips for you, but you are in the right place for support , as you will probably already know. 

You have to take each day at a time an try not to stress out too much (easier said than done I know)  Try and get plenty of sleep, I had myself worn out. 

I found popping on here every day for the first few weeks, a real good help.  Only me and DH knew about PG until I was 13 weeks and had my scan, so Bounty was fab to be able to jump on and share things.

I hope I have been of some help to you hun.

xxxxx  Vicki xxxxxx

hello

i remember you from ttcal

congratulations and baby glue to you hon.

i had early scans - my 5w one showed nothing but a black spot and at 7w i saw a heartbeat but like you described the joy at seeing heartbeat was really quite short lived at the overwhelming feeling it would all go tits up again.

i have no idea how i have got myself to this stage, i am 32w tomorrow, and it has got easier, after my 20w scan time passed in half weeks rather than days, then after 3/4d scan at 27w time passes in weeks now, and i guess now i feel i am on a countdown, i have my moments when i cant believe, after my three losses last year, that it will happen for me. i wouldnt let myself get excited or really happy as a self preservation thing, then it wouldnt hurt so much, which is one of the reasons i went for a 3/4d scan at 27 weeks so i could actually start to bond with my bump.

i have no advice, other than all you can do is tell yourself you have taken one giant stride to getting your baby, by getting pregnant and getting that thin blue line, and seeing a hb on scan, and also i only got thru by just trying to get thru each day at a time. each morning, each night, another day down, another step nearer to another week.

hopefully your regular scans will also help you set yourself small goals to reach - that was my other way forward too.

Hi all, as the title says, I'm 6 weeks PG after 3 MC and finding out I have balanced translocation of chromosomes. I had an appointment yesterday at what I thought was 5+6 and we saw a little heartbeat so that was much more than we'd hoped to see... but that was yesterday and today I've convinced myself that when we go back again (on the 21st) the baby won't have grown, this is what happened with my 1st loss.

The Cons did say he would scan me weekly but he is on holiday for the next 2 weeks so not sure how I am going to get through this! It just seems so long to wait!

Any tips or advice?

Thank you and x