hi i have had 2 missed mc i found out about both at my 12 week scan. i was gutted and gave it 2 years before trying again. but now that i am pg again i keep checking that i am not bleeding and every week i get the doctor to do another pg test. she is very understanding. i dont think it matters who you are you will worry i know i will until my scan. try to be postive

hi haaza,first of all i really want to offer you my support and i know exactly how ur feeling.i had a mmc in jan,i was 11wks gone,baby stopped growin at 6 wks,only sign i had was 1 lot of clear discharge with a tiny red streak of blood in - that was it.anyhow,when i found out i was preg this time,i was only 4 wks gone,i wish id waited to test,less of a wait.anyhow ive been frantic,im 10 wks 1day and had 2 scans already.one at 8 wks and one at 9+5.I had some brown discharge which is why got me in first time,and second because id had some pink liquid and bright red bleeding,which has stopped now.Both times i convinced myself that it was the same thing happening again.Im at 10 wks and its gettin slightly easier,seein as im comin towards wot they call the safer zone,at 12 wks.got my 12 wk scan 13th aug,and i wont be satisified til ive seen my baby kickin away then.it does get a bit easier,but i think the experience weve had,its hard to forget,and of course were within our rights to worry even tho every1 will tell us it wont do baby any good,or if we carry on we might make it happen - ive heard it all.just hang on in there and good luck,feel free to email me on a bad day,take care emma x

Wishing you lots of luck hun.  I am probably in the same boat.  My 7 week scan showed no heartbeat and hcg levels have only risen slightly over a couple of days.  Sonographer also saw a lot of blood inside me and said to prepare for the worse.  Feel in limbo now and have to wait for repeat scan on Friday.  At least now I will get a consultant appointment for recurrent miscarriage as it will be my third in a row.

I'm gutted and feel so sad that this keeps happening ... sending love and hugs xxx

Thanks for the kind words. The doctors said that another miscarriage is likely to happen again but  we have decided that we're going to try again very soon, so fingers crossed. Hopefully i'll be back here very soon, chatting to you guys.

Good Luck to everyone on this forum.

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Oh Hazza, I am so, so sorry.  That is so bl00dy unfair.  Take care of yourself and I hope you get that take home baby really soon x

Haaza I just wanted to say how sorry I am. One mmc/mc is hard enough but this is hell.

So sorry hun - a mssive hug. Please feel free to vent here - we do understand hun.

Thank you for the supportive comments but on Friday i found out that i have miscarried again. Feeling really low, its not fair! After a couple of hours of letting my manager and work colleagues know. I went to the toliet to find blood there. The doctor told me that im having an early miscarriage which will feel like a period. Been bleeding heavily and finding it painful. WHY does it have to happen?! 

TootsieMcFooter wishing you all the best!!

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Hazza - sending you a hug.  What you are feeling is perfectly normal and I am sorry to hear about your loss.  I had 2 mc's last year and am now 6 weeks pregnant and a nervous wreck.  I don't seem to have any pregnancy symptoms and am worried sick that my baby has died and I will find out when I go for my scan next week.  When you have had a loss before, it ruins your confidence in pregnancy.  I know it is hard but try to think positively and try to see if you can get an earlier scan for reassurance. 

I have also joined a thread on "trying to conceive after losing a baby" the thread is called something like - "Knicker checking, finger crossing early BFP's".  There are other women on there who are all in early pregnancy after having lost babies before and we are all equally nervous.  You would be welcome there hun and it would help you not to feel so alone in your worries.

Sending loads of babyglue and best wishes for a healthy pregnancy x

Hello,I didn't just want to read your post and ignore you.I think the way you are feeling is only natural,any woman who has been through what you have been through would feel the same.My sister has also suffered a mc,she was about 12 weeks gone and it happened before her scan.I'm sending love and best wishes your way.xx

Hi im 21 years old, three months ago i had a missed miscarriage where my baby in my tummy had stopped growing and lost its heartbeat at 8 weeks 5 days. I didnt find out til i was 12 weeks when i started to have light bleeding and pains in my stomach. This was 3 days before my 12 week scan was booked for. The next day i went into hospital to have a erpc. I've been feeling really low since and keep on thinking about it. Yesterday i found out that im pregnant again. Im scared and worried that the same thing is going to happen again. I really need some one to talk to, am i just being silly or have others felt like me.