I had a stillbirth last novemember a little girl at 32 weeks. I am now 31 weeks and have had many scans but still find it hard to relax. Im having a boy this time and he is very active so I feel him a lot but he has his quiet days and it worries me sick. Ive found it very hard to relax and be posotif but im starting to feel a bit better now.

Im sure once you buy one or two things you might start to relax a little. Its not easy and you will prob worry all the way through until baby is born and is safe at home with you. I think its a natural thing to worry. Hope everything goes well for you in your pregnancy im sure it will.

xxxx

Im sorry to hear your news hun. I lost twins in Jaunauary and im now 21+1 again with a little boy I know how u feel, but I have bought things like clothes, nothing big yet as if anything goes wrong a bag of clothes can just be stored away..although i think my LO's a fighter! May i just ask how comes you have had 12 scans already? I mean i have only had the 12 week scan! I've got my next scan in 9 days yay!! Get to see him again! You just got to think your little girls got this far. i know its hard, ive been there myself but once you start buying a little dress or a pair of booties (thats was my first buy!) you start to get excited and the fear slowly ebbs away. You get your days where u still worry but you're bound too hun x  

hi there all. well i had a mc last year with twins. i am pregnant again and now at 25 weeks 2day. im trying 2 enjoy this pregnancy as much as i can but there is still that little thought in the back of my head. im really nervous at the thought of buying stuff. i have had 12 scans already and have my 3d scan booked 4 next monday (the 11th). my dh told me 2 pick out the pram that i want and he will buy it 4 me. i know he is very nervous 2 and is just trying 2 help.

i dont really feel much movement but i didnt feel my ds (6) till i was 32 weeks. the only time that i really feel anything is wen im in a nice warm bath. i just say 2 myself its because ima big girl normally (18-20) thats y i dont feel as much. im taking each day as it comes. we have found out that we r having a girl this time we r going 2 call her mia lacey. shee will b very special 2 all 3 of us i just wish i could relax more and enjoy being pregnant.

sheena 25 weeks