thanks mate she is a little star,,hope all goes well for you

Hi Hun, thanks so much for your response. I'm going to stop worrying and enjoy the rest of my pregnancy. I know we will cope as everyone does when they have children don't they?

Your baby is gorgeous by the way i love your profile picture!

Take care hun and thanks again xx

Hi purdy cat i am gatecrashing i put in the wrong forum and read your thread and realised but still wanted to reply.

You will cope and congratulations reaching 20 weeks. i live on my own with my lo, i am still in a relationship with her dad but he doesnt live with us due to various reasons that i wont go into.

i work full time and have little financial support from her dad as he is on sickness benefits, i earn around 17,000 and live in a one bed flat,.

Financially i am okay they dont have to cost the earth, i buy eveything new and live within my budget, she never goes without at all, my advice is to start buying now especially nappies and wipes etc, or when you feel able to do so. i had so much brought for me when i had the lo i didnt know where to put it all.

My lo is 9 months now  and still in with me but we cope and to tell you the truth i love her being in my room.

Men they just dont have the same sence of urgency that we do do they...make a list and tell him thats what we need to do that may help..

Hope all goes well try and relax and enjoy it

Hi, well i'm now 20wks and have never got this far. I have had 3 mc's in the past 2 1/2years all before they got to 12 weeks so we are over the moon to have got to 20wks.

The thing is i can't stop worrying about things. I keep having digs at my poor husband that we don't have enough money and that we are not going to cope financially once the baby comes. Also that we have stuff to still finish in the house  etc and the list goes on....why do i keep tormenting myself like this and my poor dh??? He is such a kind and loving man but when it comes to motivation he doesn't really have any and i feel llike i'm constantly trying to motivate him. He is trying to start up his own business but this has been going on for ages and i can see the potential the business has but he just doesn't seem to be pushing it and its really getting to me. He also never wants to be sexual even though i don't want to have sex because of risk but we can do other stuff but he doesn't seem interested  

Sorry to moan but just don't know what to do....

xx