We lost our precious seth in June at 9 mths old.  it is his birthday on friday, he should be celebrating his 1st birthday.  I am struggling horrendously and today (wed) was the day i actually had him so it has been hard today.  I dont know how I am going to get through Friday but know I am dreading it.  Sorry I can't be of any help, just wanted to send you a huge hug and lots of love.

Maybe a balloon release or something.  We often let balloons up for seth.  My 3 yr old loves that seth is getting them all!!

its such a hard thing to go through. i had mc in april and this baby im havin is due in april around the same time i lost my little bean. my ds decided 2 give (mc) angel a name which helped us all deal with losing him/her. the other thing is the baby i lost was due around 9th dec which is my ds b day. when u have no grave 2 put flowers on its hard 2 decide what 2 do when the day baby was supposed to be born on comes around. im babbling on sorry.

I recently went and got my ds a toy, my bean a teddy and at the same time i got my angel a teddy aswell, i know shes never going to be able to play with it but it eases my mind so we dont forget her and even though shes gone, shes still apart of our lives.

i know how u feel i had a mmc last year i was due 2nd of feb this year, it was a day i dreaded, but i spent it with my partner ,just the 2 of us, and that helped.

being pg again is wonderful but it doesnt stop u feeling sad at the baby u lost.,

good luck and lots of baby glue to u

xxx

heya every1 ive popped on here every now and again but ive only just got a comp at home so i will be able to chat more. i found out i was pregnant end of jan beginin of feb this year. was over the moon as we had been trying for a few months. i then mc in march was the worst thing i ever went through, i crumbled for a while but my parnter stuck by me. i found out i was pregnant again in june. bit of a shock pleased and nervous at the same time. everythings fine so far although cant stop worrying. i just dont know how im going to get through the 6th of october it was the day my baby was supposed to be born i will never forget my first bubs i want to mark it in some way but i dont know how.  any ideas please xxxxxx