rite now im feelin everythin anger,resentment, upset and frustrated. my partner or should i say ex partner has told me 2 4get wot happened and ignore wot was said. im sorry but i cant just ignore wot was said.

the kids can have a go at me all they like but wen they have ago at a 4wk old baby and then turn on their 4yr old brother im not havin it.

i did have an agrement in place 2 yr ago that i didnt c his kids until they learned some manners and respect and that went out the window, so im puttin my foot down this time ive put his kids b4 my own 2 many times so now im gonna stand up 4 myself and my kids.

he said he will talk 2 the girls but im not holdin out much hope as he has neva done so in the past so why start now wen the line has been crossed, i neva wanted my kids 2 b apart from their dad but its happened now so i have got 2 make it as painless as possible 4 my 4yr old son

aaww hun im so sorry it went so awfully.

im hoping your just upset and angry right now and dont go through with an actual split. i was thinking maybe family mediation might be worth a try. and if your finding it such a strain just to send the dad to see the kids...have no contact yourself for a while.

is it possible that there is sumwhere the kids can be picked up from..like a grandparent etc?...so that your partner does not have to have contact with the ex?

take care x

guys i posted a thread a few days ago bout not wantin 2 c my step kids. well i did and it went really bad ive explained wot happened on the thread.

i have now made the decision 2 split wid my partner as i cant take their and their mothers crap anymore ive taken it for 5yrs and wot they said on friday is the last straw, im sick of their constant jibes and bad manners.

ive got 2 look out for my kids and the only way 2 not deal wid them is 2 split wid my partner as i would neva ask him 2 choose btween me and the 2 girls, even though me doin this seems like it.

i just cant put up wid another 5yrs and more of their crap so they have got wot they wanted me and my 2 kids out of their lives.