i no the feelin bout not having a holiday my dps ex gets a hoiday paid for by her siis and we dntt even get a nite away  we have 2 buy the kids new clothes 4 here she sends them in clothes that r miles to small and same with shoes she really upsetss me

its not unreasonable at all...what kind of mother isnt there for her kid on thier birthday...what a selfish cow!

and lynz....me ex does that from time to time...informs me he cant have our children that weekend as hes off on holiday...always last minute...like i dont have a life of my own!. and it baffles me as to why he doesnt want to take his kids with him. id understand if he neded a break...but hes always doing it..ffs!

aahh mebbe im just jealous coz i aint had a holiday in 4 years lol

thanks

hi chick its 11 years old

hth x

grr exs do u no at wat age children can choose where to live i fel so sorry 4 his kidsliving with her

not unreasonable at all...  she should be there and make all arangements before the day, and stick to it...  its her child...

we just got a txt out of the blue from hubbys ex telling us shes off on hols so his son cant stay at hers!!!  he lives with us, and why the hell is she not taking her son anyway??????????

its his sons 4 bday to day and last nite she left all 3 kids with her siister and stayed at her bfs and she wasnt goin bak til l8 morning or lunch time  she stil not bak we changed our plans so she cud have him today and now she not there we had a party 4 him last weekend am i bein unreasonble to fink she shud b there at her sons bday