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3/7/08 19:02
30/6/08 19:17
i no it not gud that she dint ask soooner sheas given 3 days notice b4 luuckily we cud chnge things arround dis time wont b so easy cuz work very busy in da summer and a lot of people have already boooked holiday we have considred going 4 custody but not sure how to do it and dp finks they wil leave dem with there mum his lil girl 2 andhalf also calls all her bfs dadddy it upsets dp. the man she marrrying left her b4 cuz he cudnt cope with da kids
30/6/08 09:48
She just expected you to have them a full week with a months notice????!!!!!!
The end of summer holidays you might have been able to sort time off, but with that much notice for start of summer holidays you'd have no chance.
If you think they are very unhappy or in an danger then apply for custody.
It's very short notice if she getting married.
Emma
29/6/08 19:37
thanks talking to her int easy she gets very mouthy she finks she knows better than any1 they love bein at ours so worried bout them she geting married appaartenntly duriing da 6 weeks hols. she rung today saying boooking u in 2 av dem da 1st and last weeek of 6 week hols. not do u mind aving dem hjust saying but it geting time off work etc hetoldher u dnt demand owt
28/6/08 21:20
I think I remember you posting about this before. Him getting to bath room too late etc.
At 4 years old it is to be expected. Maybe his mum isn't so forgiving when he has accidents or her new BF.
He sounds a little stressed. Get your DH to speak to her as putting pressure on him will make things worse.
Wetting can be a sign of bad stress in a child.
Emma
28/6/08 19:34
sorry if its long
wel today ss2 pooed outside wen aske y he sed dunno we fink it cuz his mum messing with his head she aving so many different bfs
ss1 drippled b4 he got 2 da loo was onli afew spots cxcam outside crying his eyes out saying dnt tell mummy i have wet me self my dp had 2 tel him he hadnt done owt worng he had onli drippled(sp)
i really dunno wat to do i wanna cry




wel she rung agen today and started moaning(7am) grr gone scream at her soon