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14/8/08 20:50
14/8/08 08:48
Sorry to sound harsh but are you stupid? Tell him you don't like him sleeping at his ex. You don't trust his ex and the fact he may sleep with her. Tell him go in a bb and that you don't mind him seeing his kids but not the ex.
12/8/08 22:28
Why on earth is he staying at her house??? Can't he get a b&b? Can't he have them over at yours? I would be very unhappy that he is staying at her house. Plus isn't it confusing for the kids to see him and her in the same house as if they are still together???
Why not suggest him seeing the kids at yours for the weekend???
25/7/08 21:59
hang in there!
It's such a hard time and there never seems to be an end. However I stuck with it. They're only young for a short space of time and soon he'll be all yours (I know it's not a selfish thing and you hate the feelings it gives you) It's only natural. She's trying to have the control and power over you. Don't let her get to you and these people have their come uppence. I know with all the trust in the world it doesn't help receiving those messages. You're doing the right thing and he will love you so much for being supportive and you're thoughtfulness regarding his kids.
You're doing great
25/7/08 19:41
My OH is away this weekend at his ex's seeing the kids, i dont begrudge him seeing them just hate him staying at her house. its killing me and he only went this morning,
i only got him home after 5 1/2 months away last week, i know he needs to see his kids to but still i want to be selfish and cry and stomp my feet. i have turned my old phone off coz i know that his ex will be texting me telling me that they are sleeping together and all that, coz thats the type of person she is!
i dont know how much i can cope with. but it isnt like i can say anything either coz i would be like i am stopping him seeing the kids.
I agree with the others, theres no way he should be staying at hers thats not good for anyone, especially the children!
Put your foot down hun and tell him your not having it anymore!! Why should you have to go through feeling lke this! Just by saying you don'twant him staying at hers is not you saying you don' want him to see his children!
Big hugs xx