they are 6 and 4 and nearly 3

how old are the children??

I had a real problem with my son not brushing his teeth and getting bad breath. He is 7 and we had a daily chart up, if he brushed twice a day at the end of the week he got a decent treat. I also explained to him how important friends are through life and that if he had bad breath then no one would want to be his friend etc.

Its not easy and if kids are busy playing etc they may not want to be bothered washing etc but all you can do is keep setting your rules for your house and dont give in.

xxx

she dnt listen to him

all they will do is visit....unless the kids are being beaten or neglected theres not alot they`ll do, that said, even in some cases of neglect and other horrible stuff, they dont do anything either.... not alot of point really. cant your partner have a word with her about it?

for stuff lik the kids smelling and bein dirrty sd was filthy wen she got ere fri and  her hair was minging me and dps mum had 2 wasgh it 2 times just toget it to smell nice. and they boys wernt uch beta

It depends what for.

But they are supposed to visit mind you they do in general warn them before going...............

Emma

what wud happen if i report dps ex to socail services