where do people get off telling you how many kids you can have.

 You are definately not selfish bringing up the step children and your own. and I wish you well with you lovely big family x

lol and i dio have to say i had one beautiful baby boy and i'm not just saying that couse he my son

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It seems to go with the territory My ex`s Iq was mensa qualified and he thought he was smart (even tho i thrashed him on tests ad im not) My dp iq is in the 160 bracket and you woud not think it coz he keeps it to himself (ive seen the proof tho) and it wil be hilarious if my ex starts mouthing off coz he thinks because someone is dyslexic they cant measure up to him..*grin* and my dp woud thrash him!! roflms. does not matter if its one or more. its your right after all, your young healthyand have a high IQ to pas along so the next generations arent too dumb!! (no offense to anyone) 

i'm dyslexic to and my iq silly high

i just want the one more i really like a girl but if it a boy then i will be happy with that

ppl are being selfish to say you are being selfish. If your relationship is stable why should you not have more?? Dont worry bout your spelling, Ive seen some ppl who can barely type and there is no reason why they should not!! (plus my partners dyslexic but his IQ thrashes mine..

Selfish is the last thing you sound - you're bring up 3 kids that aren't your own!  If you want another baby then you should have one.  I would maybe stop there though, 6 is a lot!!

Your not selfish at all alfter all youve only been through the pregnancy and baby moments once. I alwasy get the same from people that we shouldnt be having more because i have twins but my partner also has a daughter from a previous relationship. She doesnt live with us though everyone seems to think i have to think of her as my child. Even though ive had 2 babies of my own i know i want more because ive only had pregnancy and babys once just all at the same time with them been twins. I always said i only ever wanted 2 children a girl and a boy now ive got twins who knows how many i want x

i look after my 3 step kids full time as there mum did not look after them and socal removed them due to misstratment the all have problem the 10 year old girl got rall problems so bad that she will probly need to go into foster care as need 1 on 1 care for her globle dlayes she not my hubbys he meet her mum after the damige was dune but he rased it and it really hard to have to send her away ( bare with the spelling i am gtting to a pont and i'm dyslexic )

anyway i look after them like there my own and love them to bit but i resently had my own baby who 9 weekand i always thought i have 2 babys i have my heart st on anouther one but peaple keep saying i have 4 kids to think of and my hubby thoud get the snip is it wronge of me to want anouther one ?