Thank you.  We've actually had a much better day today, no accidents, and happier to use the loo when I suggest.  It's good to know it's not just us struggling.  Good luck to you and your lo!

my son 3 1/4 yrs, will go all day, when iput him on loo, then stay dry. but wont tell me at all. so i put him on after every meal as well as every half hr or so depending on wat hes drunk.

im not stressing about it though, sometime has accidents, i just say come on let finish off in the loo.

keep praising him, treats etc, they will get there in end.

he starts nursery in sept so that mite help too, seeing every1 else goin to loo.

be patient xxx

Thank you.  I just worry that I'm doing something wrong or pushing her too much or even that something is wrong...I guess I just need to chill and go with the flow a bit more.

hey huni im sure that it will just come with time. my ds is on week 2 still rarely tells me he needs a wee but will say yes or no if i ask him so getting there, stick to it she wont be 16 and still needin reminding x lol x

Hi my lo will be 3 in 2.5 months.  We are in week 4 on continuous big girl pants and no pull ups at all all day.  She has still not once told me she needs a wee or poo and never tried to go herself.  She has the potty with her all day and just pants on.  Also has steps and padded seat on all loos.  If i take her to the loo which I do every 40 mins or so she will do a wee or poo but in between these times if she needs to go she will wet herself and then tell me.  I have a bit of a struggle to get her on the loo to try for me but she usually gives in and trys.  I've tried stickers/treats everything but she just wont go on the loo or pot unless she is taken.  Should we be at that stage yet where she knows its coming or will it just click eventually?  I'm starting to worry.  Any help please.....Thank you xx