mine doesnt even know my childrens names, they forget they have them as grandkids and only count her other kids children which is lovely not

Atleast your mil is loving your lo, maybe try and gently remind her hes your lo not hers and she needs to let you get on and learn thing on your own. You've grateful for her help e.t.c but as a first time mum you want to learn things your own way but if you need help e,t,c she will be the first person you call

that way nothing you say can hurt her feelings or yours dp's and your big her up lol as a great grandmother lol

i think mil are pretty much either really crap or way way to much in your face i dont know any that are good lol

well we aint married so she aint my MIL but she nsists on carry my lo to the car even though we normally leave when shes tired so she will sleep in the car so shes tired and starts screaming as soon as any1 comes near her except me really annoys me cos i hate seein her upset. i know how yas feel she always takes over and is like i did this.... he liked this etc etc

My MIL was a bit like that to start with, and I felt I could do no right when I had my first. She used to try and take over which used to upset me. I was 21 when I had my first, so we were young parents and I guess inexperienced, but it used to really annoy me that she 'knew better'!!

She's a lot better now though, and we get on ok. I find her supportive rather than trying to take over, if that makes sense! I still prefer my Mum, I guess that's understandable, but I've learned to realise now that she's just being helpful.

I hope this is the outcome with your MIL. Don't really know what to say, other than perhaps have a quiet word with her... but that might cause problems! Try not to let it get in the way of you and dp though hon.

xx

hi.... does anyone have a mother in law like minez??

my mother in law is around 38ish n thinks she all that!!!! she takes my baby away from me n starts acting like she the mum of my baby...acts like she knows it all....and creates arguments between me n ma partner.....

i hate her but i dnt say anything to her cz shez ma partners mother n i love my partner dnt wanna hurt him!!!

id love to her frm sum1