hey thats gud that u feel better today..

i dont know u but ur not a crap mum so dont ever think that its ok to say to ur ds to go n play for abit while u go sleep for abit but jus keep an eye on him so that nothing happens to lo xxx

morning i am feeling a bit beter 2day after some sleep but stil havent gone into work, i am going 2 try n get somepacking done 2day if andrew will let me coz he has been up since 5 and i feel like a let down coz i tol dhim 2 go play and then i went bk 2 sleep for an hour n half  am i a crap mum or is this ok ?

thanks hun im off 2 bed now coz i feel like rubbish and i need some sleep n 2 chill out im proper emotional and stressed out so i need 2 go n chill in bed n try n sleep

hey hun i know how u must be feeling just ignore the idoits out there... cnt say much

((((((((((((((big hug))))))))))))))))))) to hopfuly cheer u up

i am having the worst day ever somone rung me on housephone earlier asking about sumin i had 4 sale n i said sorry its now gone n thy called me f***ing c**t and hurling abuse at me and i just burst out crying

coz i hate the c word n h8 being called it

 why is everyone trying to b nasty to me 2day

i have had 2 phone my boss 2 say i cnt go  into wrk 2moz coz ive got bad belly now due 2 stress n bk n forth bathroom like every 2 secs lol sorry if to much info.

i just wanna scream  

I think you should go to wales to be honest! I mean she is your mum but she doesn't sound like a very nice one to me!

She has given no reason for you to stay, if she is making you feel like this then you should totally go and not even feel guilty. You gave her a chance when you came back the first time, you tried and it hasn't worked out.

If her life isn't worth living without you then she should try to be a bit nicer to keep you in it!!

Im sorry to hear about your brother and horrid situation, I really hope it gets better for you. Also feel free to rant however much you want, everyone needs to once in a while, especially if they are in a bad situation!

hth, xxx

i am feeling proper low 2nite ive had a proper stressful week, i am getting nuffin but moaned and n mum trying to guilt trip me into staying.

me n my mum have never had a good relationship and i moved out at 16 to move 2 wales with my pater john and i fell pregnant she tried getting me to have an abortion but i went ahead with my pregnancy n had my son andrew who is now 2 1/2................ i stopped talking 2 her for 3 months while i ws pregnant because of the abortion thing................. we started talking few weeks b4 i had andrew i suffered from reall bad depression b4 and after i had andrew it got worse n she said she would chnage n support me and help me out if i moved from wales bk 2 kent so i did when ds was 2 1/2 months old and it was ok for first few months but then we started arguing just like b4.......... she has never looked after me son and has always put me down n when i lost baby last april she didnt support me i was so upset. she calls me fat and tells andrew to ccall me porky mummy which really hurts ive put on alot of weight since i moved bk dwn here coz im unhappy n comfort eat and have gone from a 14 to an 18-20 and i feel low,

i also lost my older brother in nov due to drug overdose (my bro had been in rehab for 11months n was clean and after being ot 3 months sumin happened n he took drugs and  died) an that hit me hard as i was just re building my relationship with him n he was getting 2 know andrew

were being evicted out of our flat and me n john have decided to move bk 2 wales on the 28th june and mum is trying to trap me into staying here saying she cant cope without us and saying that im causing her a nervous breakdown and trying to trap me into staying and saying i cant take her grandson away and saying its all dp johns fault

 i dont know what to do i want to move away  coz the stress n unhappiness is killing me and i feel so deprssed i cant handle anymore i am so close to tears at the moment

sorry to rant but i just wnted to get it all out

Hi im sure he will be ok with the move good luck x

i dont know what to do im  scared stiff n i dnt wnt to unsettle andrew i know he can take change ok but im worried coz exs mum s house aint clean or tidy n i got this thing i cant stand andrew being messy sticky etc its like an ocd i think thts wht its called

Hi I'm afraid I can't offer much advice as I don't know much about the system but didn't want to leave you unanswered. Hopefully someone else can give you some proper advice. It sounds like you best bet is to move in with your ex partners mum. I really wouldn't worry about your little one, kids are suprisingly resilient and I'm sure he won't feel unsettled. My girls are also 2 and a half and its amazing how easily they adjust. I hope you can get some proper support but just wanted you to know you are not completely on your own. xx

hello i need some help and advice, im 20 yrs old and have 2 1/2 son andrew.

im being evicted from my flat due to council not payin my rent and i cnt afford to pay the arreas all in one go. the lanlord wnt budge

the council in folkestone wnt help me unless i have a letter with date on saying when i have 2 b out by, my landlord has not produced this yet coz he aint even spoke to his solicitors, i am out of my mind with worry for myself and my 2 1/2 yr old son andsons dad.

 me nd sons have been arguing about this since weekend, we want to move back to wales where he is from n where i had son we moved bk to folkestone my home twn when son was 2 1/2 months, i regret that move now bigtime so were gonna go bk to wales, me n sons dad aint actually 2gether hes just around 2 see his son but were not 2gether if that makes sense. basically we r gonna move in to exs mums house and stay with her for few weeks till i can get re housed up there, i am worried about this coz im scared for my son, i dont wnt him 2 b unsettled.

my family r not  supporting me infact ive been told im a useless mum and a failure to my son by my sister and mum and that i am also selfish.

im feeling very low at the moment and not been 2 well for the past 5 weeks but im trying to get on with things all i keep doing is crying , my son has a social worker and i am trying to get hold of him but this is provig difficult hes either not answering or busy,

i only work 10 hrs a week and am a single parent on benifits (coz me n his dad not together)

i want to know what else i can do

someone help me im scared n dnt know wht to do and think im close too breaking point