Thanks for replying, dd's real dad has never been interested, im quite glad really in a way but it still gets to me and upsets me that he doesnt want to know, does that even make sense lol xx

hey im 18 my dd is 2

i cant be much help with the ttc situations but i can relate to with the father not being interested

i wasnt with my dds dad long when before i got pregnant then a week an half after finding out he walked out and left us thenw hen my dd was 18mnth he tried 2 be a dad to her but that only lasted a month now we havent seen him since

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Just thought id pop in and make some new friends, im usually on buy/sell im an addict pmsl. Anyways I'm Dom, 22 live in rugeley,staffs , got pregnant at 17 with my dd and had her when i was 18. Alyssa starts reception next tuesday . Anyways just wondered if any1 else was in the same situation as me.

  My parents and sisters moved to Oz when I was 20 and havent seen me and my dd since and ive found it really hard and as i suffer with depression it set it off again and i was really ill. My dad is coming to visit in October and im really looking forward to it, we didnt get on very well before but now we get on really well.

  Then my dd well i got pregnant by my boyfriend at the time was only together 3/4 months when i found out, and when i did he turned funny and we split up two months later. Not long after,  i realised that i was actually in love with his ex best friend we spent so much time with each other and we were best friends (now been married nearly 2 & a hf yrs). His own choice he decided to bring my dd up as his own but it has been difficult and after nearly 4 yrs of ttc we cant get pregnant. As you can imagine its really hard being in this situation and i feel so helpless and i just dont quite understand it and i dont understand how they can name it unexplained secondary infertility, anyways we've had all the tests, ive been on clomid and they cant find anything wrong with us.

Just wondered if any1 was in a similar situation to me and how do you cope with it all?

Dom xx