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9/4/08 07:18
8/4/08 10:08
Morning me dears
How are you all today?.How are the kids today?.we have had a really bad night with Lewis he must have been up about 5-6 times last night!!.He is full of cold again!!!.since we put him in nursery he has never been well if its not one week its another where is he ill!!.
Lou did your mother-in-law get her radiator fixed?.How were things last night?.
Dawn.Lewis takes after his momma sweetness is my middle name!.HAHAHAHA!!.Where are you staying when you go to Scarbrough?.I think you could possibly be building snowmen but I am hoping you have some warm weather.
Well I went to aqua-aerobics last night girls and I absolutley loved it!!.The instructor is like a freaking drill seargent!!!!.HAHA.Looking forward to next week.Sunday I am going to Bums&Tums with my friend Lorraine!!.
Anyway I am going to get some laundry folded!!!.Bain of my life laundry!!.And ironing may I add!!.Infact all aspects of housework!!!.Who ever created housework!!.
Speak soon Love Jo xxxxx
8/4/08 08:32
Well hello to you both,
I hope it wasn't really bad news when you got home Lou?
Well another day of cleaning
have you seen what weather we are supposed to be getting its going to be a cold weekend, Chelsea wants to take her bucket and spade, somehow i don't think we will be making sand castles LOL maybe snowmenI hope you both are ok!!! Jo thanks for the lovely pic of Lewis he looks a right sweetie he looks like you ( not saying you're a sweetie LOL)
Proud mummy moment Madison has woke up 3rd day on the trot with a dry nappy don't know whether to risk it or leave it till we come back after our break?????? Just the dummy to go now

Well i might go to my sisters later got to have a break from these 4 walls it drives me mad staying in all day at least you to get a break i know you go to work but at least you get to go on the computer LMAO
Speak to you soon XXX
7/4/08 08:59
Morning girls
Back at work today for another week's slog.

Well on Friday I managed to watch the first ten minutes of Benidorm before falling asleep. I was so tired after having looked after my friend's children. I took them to the park because it was a nice day.
Dawn, yes you deserve a break. I would try and arrange a romantic evening out. We went out on Good Friday when staying at my mums. We only go out when we visit her in Birmingham, because we don't have a babysitter where we live.
Jo, hope your ok.
Better get on with some work.
lots of love Loux
5/4/08 10:10
Well hello to you
How are you both today ok i hope?
I watched all of the programmes last night and stayed awake lol, i hope you managed to pull yourself away Lou from wii and watched them i can't believe it was the last Al Murray shame
, Jo did you get some taboo i will get some lemonade today for mine tonight, have you tried the blue one? i got that one aswell,
I hope your day wasn't to stressfull with all the extra kiddies you had Lou?
When is the hen night Jo is it soon ?
I need to get out soon we haven't been out since January its been hard these past few months with Madison being ill we have had many trips to out of hours, one night she could hardly breathe and we took her to the hospital and the doctor said we should of used her epi-pen
but we wasn't to know but at least we know what signs to look for now its all new to us, he was ok about it but it makes you feel like bad parents.Well enough from me, so i will try and catch you later if not it will be Monday now when you girlies working ?
Bye for now hugs to you both Dawn xx
4/4/08 14:27
Hello there girlies,
Tonight is the night been looking forward to this all week (sad i know) BENIDORM Yeahhh I went to tesco's today and got some Taboo its £3.98 it's on offer so i got 2 but guess what i forgot the lemonade Bu**er
so Vodka and coke it is LOLIt's next friday we are away looking forward to it hopefully no trips to A+E while we are there, been doing loads of ironing to catch up so i can get the kids suitcase packed
I know what you mean Jo about friends being honest it would be so much better, i know i have put weight on and i got so paranoid i still am really, if i won the lottery i would have my boobs lifted (gone south) a tummy tuck (spare tyre)suction on my thighs and bum and sides (anyone got any spare cash)LOL this is the best part when i said this to my dp he said if we won i could have this done LMAO (lovely man he is)

Jo don't forget to put your feet up and have a drink and you to Lou with the mad house today all them kids
Hugs to you both xx
4/4/08 12:11
Hiya There
How are you both today?.I am off to work in a hour!!.boohoo!!!.I am due to have a week off soon I can't wait!!.My kids break up today at 2-15pm!!.2weeks off can you believe that!!.
I wish my friend was honest with me it gets on my nerves when people lie to you.Its actually putting me off going!!!.Lewis has got big boy pants on today he won't go on the potty like but its worth a try!!.
Definitely try and watch Benidorm tonight Lou you won't be disappointed I promise!!.
I have done some cleaning and washing today and actually hung some washing out to dry its a lovely day out there!!.
Well Warren is going to stay with his 'real' dad in Scarbrough for a week to give us a break if I am being honest hopefully this week will give him time to think.I have give up on my ex trying to be a father to him I mean 20mins of his precious time!.I am upset because he has raised him since he was 2!!.Aren't ex's doyles eh!!..Anyway Rant over!!!.
Anyway I had better leave it there as I have got to get ready for work!!.
Take Care love Jo xx
P.S How come your post has gone in 4 times Lou??..HAHAHAHA.
4/4/08 10:07
Hi to you both,
Well Flick breaks up from school today at 1.15!!! It was hardly worth going really wasn't it. I'm collecting some of the other children up whose mums work on Fridays and can't finish early enough to collect them. So we will have a house full this afternoon - should be fun.
Jo. Yes I know what you mean. I would much rather Dave or any of my mates, be totally honest with me rather than let me buy something to wear that makes me look awful. I am always honest with other people. I'm sure whatever you wear will look great!!
Well I am going to make a concerted effort to tune into Benidorm tonight. I saw a brief preview last night and it looks really funny. There isn't much on TV at the moment to make laugh is there?
Anway better get on with the cleaning. Dawn now you have got your cleaning done, you can relax all weekend. Is it this weekend you go away?
Anyway hope you and your kids are well. (Jo glad to hear you are feeling a bit better).
Take care
Luv Loux
4/4/08 10:07
Hi to you both,
Well Flick breaks up from school today at 1.15!!! It was hardly worth going really wasn't it. I'm collecting some of the other children up whose mums work on Fridays and can't finish early enough to collect them. So we will have a house full this afternoon - should be fun.
Jo. Yes I know what you mean. I would much rather Dave or any of my mates, be totally honest with me rather than let me buy something to wear that makes me look awful. I am always honest with other people. I'm sure whatever you wear will look great!!
Well I am going to make a concerted effort to tune into Benidorm tonight. I saw a brief preview last night and it looks really funny. There isn't much on TV at the moment to make laugh is there?
Anway better get on with the cleaning. Dawn now you have got your cleaning done, you can relax all weekend. Is it this weekend you go away?
Anyway hope you and your kids are well. (Jo glad to hear you are feeling a bit better).
Take care
Luv Loux
4/4/08 10:07
Hi to you both,
Well Flick breaks up from school today at 1.15!!! It was hardly worth going really wasn't it. I'm collecting some of the other children up whose mums work on Fridays and can't finish early enough to collect them. So we will have a house full this afternoon - should be fun.
Jo. Yes I know what you mean. I would much rather Dave or any of my mates, be totally honest with me rather than let me buy something to wear that makes me look awful. I am always honest with other people. I'm sure whatever you wear will look great!!
Well I am going to make a concerted effort to tune into Benidorm tonight. I saw a brief preview last night and it looks really funny. There isn't much on TV at the moment to make laugh is there?
Anway better get on with the cleaning. Dawn now you have got your cleaning done, you can relax all weekend. Is it this weekend you go away?
Anyway hope you and your kids are well. (Jo glad to hear you are feeling a bit better).
Take care
Luv Loux
4/4/08 10:07
Hi to you both,
Well Flick breaks up from school today at 1.15!!! It was hardly worth going really wasn't it. I'm collecting some of the other children up whose mums work on Fridays and can't finish early enough to collect them. So we will have a house full this afternoon - should be fun.
Jo. Yes I know what you mean. I would much rather Dave or any of my mates, be totally honest with me rather than let me buy something to wear that makes me look awful. I am always honest with other people. I'm sure whatever you wear will look great!!
Well I am going to make a concerted effort to tune into Benidorm tonight. I saw a brief preview last night and it looks really funny. There isn't much on TV at the moment to make laugh is there?
Anway better get on with the cleaning. Dawn now you have got your cleaning done, you can relax all weekend. Is it this weekend you go away?
Anyway hope you and your kids are well. (Jo glad to hear you are feeling a bit better).
Take care
Luv Loux
3/4/08 18:39
Hiya Girlies
How are you both?.I am ok today just feel apprehensive.I have had a nice day I went to my mam's and we went to Redcar then I came home and my dad&step-mam turned up then I went to see my auntie then i visited with Warren's&Jenz grandma who I haven't seen for ages!!.It was good to see her.
I have done really well today with my eating i had cereal for breakfast then a sandwich and now we are cooking a curry I am having rice and the others are having chips!!.I have drank more water then usual and have only had 2 cups of tea!!.
Way-Hay Benidorm tommorow!!.I can't wait .I hope its as funny as last weeks!!.I got a bottle of wine for the occasion aswell.HAHAHAHA.
I have actually changed my mind about wearing that policewomans outfit!!!..I am kind of on the big side at the min and I don't want to make a fool of myself wearing it.I kind of had a go at me best mate today because of it she is a size 8 and is really thin and she keeps saying you look ok and i know I don't so I kind of got upset about it!!.
Anyway i shall leave it there as our tea is about cooked.Catch up with you both soon x
Hugs Jo xx
3/4/08 15:29
Hello to you both
I hope you are having a good day so far
I haven't done to bad i cleaned the house well cleaned the frontroom /kitchen/bathroom, and baked some cakes with the girls while Kai was in bed, and the neighbour popped in for a cup of tea
I can't wait for tomorrow night a drink of beer and BENIDORM WHOOOOA Must get out more LOL,
It was good talking to you to Louise i hope you are ok Jo
Right i need to go change a nice smelly nappy

Speak soon xxx
3/4/08 10:42
Hello both,
Jo. I have heard Slimming World is good, I think it is better than Weight Watchers. I need to shift a couple of stone myself somehow. I know if Dave had to choose whether I wore a nurses outfit or a Policewoman's one, I know which one he would choose!! lol.

I am at work today. It seems to have been a very long week. Trying to arrange child care for the next two weeks as Flick starts a two week holiday.
Dawn. It was great to chat to you earlier. Hope you enjoy your weekend away.
Anyway must go need to do some work
Hope you are both ok
Lots of love
Loux
2/4/08 20:54
Hiya to you both.
How have your days been?.I am sorry I haven't been on here today!!.I was working 8-4 then I picked Lewis up from my mam's, went shopping!!..then come home and cleaned this tip of a house!!.Your right Dawn a woman's work is never done your right cos we don't bloody stop!!!.LMAO!!.
I have decided to start on the slimming world diet as I need to lose some weight so I can fit into my maid of honor dress for me best mate's wedding!!..The hen night is a one night only and were going to see strippers there is 35 of us going!!!!.Dawn my outfit is mint!!!..Your right I need a bodyguard thats if I am let out of the house wearing that!!!..I am actually swayed wether to wear a blue nurses uniform that I used to wear in the home I worked in not so long back!!.We'll see!!!.
Thanks for saying about your girls and potty training, its good to know that he will get dry at some point!!.I know how you feel where raising kids and working is Lou I am absolutley knackered somedays where I am that tired I can't be bothered moving!!.I have to work 5 days next week all late shifts what i am not amused about!!!.and one early which is 7am till 1pm.!.They musn't realise I have got kids who are on half term!!.
I just love Scarbrough Dawn have a drive down to Whitby aswell you will love it there if you have never been.We are an hours drive away from Scarbrough :-).We went to Dorset on the way to Devon(i think)!!..HAHA..I am not sure if we will be going to see Eddy's parents this year we are decorating so we have spent some of the money on that!!.Unless we have a windfall we are staying in England.Yes we stay with Eddy's parents they have a caravan on a complex aswell as a house!!.I love the place!!.
As for birthdays mine is 6th June,Eddy 1st and Lewis 4th September,Jenz is 1st August and Warren's is 17 April and he will be 16!!..AAARRRGGGHHH I am getting old!!.HAHA.
Anyway I am going to leave it there I am sooooo tired.
Lou DON'T FORGET BENIDORM ON FRIDAY!!.hahahaha.
Love'N'Hugs Jo xx
2/4/08 13:13
Well hello you two,
We keep missing each other, got your number added Lou i know you are at work so text you later, hope the coursework is going well Jo i am trying to clean up again (womans work never done) put Kai to bed so i could hopefully get some done but felt myself being dragged to the computor lol
- Well mine is the 9th of July
- Chelsea is the 18th of June
- Madison is the 27th of January
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Kai is the 18th of December
Well got to go but i will check in later to see how you both are
Take care Dawn xx
2/4/08 10:05
Morning both,
Dawn. Glad Maddison's appointment went ok. Clarks do a good range of boots, some of them knee high and lots of ankle boots. I am going on Friday to get Fen some ankle boots because they give more support than normal shoes. Hopefully she will get some wear out of them before the weather gets warmer (wishful thinking ha ha). All of our birthdays are in October/November time so we are restricted on what we can do. By the way, while of think of it can I please have yours and your lo's birthdays so I can send a nice online card to you all. Mine is 18th November, Felicity's is 22nd October and Fen's is 14th November. I bet you are looking forward to your trip to Wales. That will be great and I am sure the weather will be lovely that time. Have a great time in Scarborough. I will send a text.
We are going to a caravan park in Dorset this year. Booked for last two weeks in August. It has on site entertainment and everything. Not brave enough to do a foreign holiday yet!! Jo, are you going to Benidorm? Do you stay with your in-laws?
Jo. When is the hen-night. Is it a weekend trip or a night out? I hope you have a great time. Thanks for the texts yesterday. Sorry the last one was a bit short. I was nackered and not thinking straight!!
Anyway I am at work today so better get on and do some work.
Bye for now both
Lots of love
Louisex
2/4/08 07:42
Hello to you both,
Madison's other appointment went ok if you can understand them haha, got to go to clarks and get her some boots, do they not realise it will be summer soon( i hope ) they want to review in 3 months. So when is your birthdays? mine hopefully will be sunny as it is in July, and we are going to Wales a few days after it, so something to look forward to, need to get away. We are going to Scarborough next Friday for a long weekend which hopefully the weather will be ok.
Jo i wouldn't worry about Lewis with training Madison has been brilliant and now gone backwards and like Lou said he will do it when ready Chelsea started on Madison's birthday last year in January and she was 3 in June i was glad that she was done before nursery,
Lou bless ya its hard enough bringing up kids let alone working and keeping a house, sometimes i look and think what have i done today as the house looks a tip but when i have a mummys boy that won't leave my leg alone most days there isn't a lot i can do and when you do get it looking nice they get all the toys out again, (thats life) but like us women we bounce back you can always pm if you wish
Getting on a different subject i looked on the Ann Summers web site JO that policewomans outfit
i couldn't believe my eyes lol i hope you have a body guard (Eddy) he might go out with you HahahaRight got to get the other 2 up they are still in bed ( i wish)
Talk later and i will add your number Lou
Luv Dawn xx
1/4/08 12:36
Hi girls,
Today is my day off. Took Fen to a toddler group this morning which was fun. Now she is in her highchair feeding herself.
Dawn. Hope Madison gets on ok at her next hospital appointment. Like you say she may have been out of sorts with a tummy bug. That was nice to be taken to the pub for a meal. You need a lift now and then.
Jo. Flick wasn't toilet trained until she was 3. I really wouldn't worry about it. I used to get stressed and leave the potty which Flick refused to use. I found the summer time best because I could keep her nappy off at certain times. He will get there Jo, I promise.
Sometimes I feel under pressure because I do everything in the house, the shopping, cleaning, looking after the kids, I do the bedtimes routines on my own, washing, ironing and work three days a week. Sometimes I wish Dave would help me. Everytime I ask for help he says I go to work and do 14 hours bla bla bla. He has this perception that I only work part time and do nothing on my days off. In fact, I work seven days a week. I know he helps a lot because he takes Wednesdays off to have the girls, but if he didn't do this I would not be able to work and we wouldn't be able to live in our house because I have to pay some of the mortgage to keep our heads above water.
I've never told anyone this, especially my mum because she would go mental, but after I gave birth to Fenella, Dave left me in the delivery suite and went home because he was tired. I was on my own being transferred to the post natal ward. I've never said anything to him about this, but inside I felt really angry. I just felt he didn't want to be around me. Anyway enough of that. I have to say generally Dave is a great husband and father. Maybe I ask too much I don't know.
Anyway, I hope you both have a lovely day. Weather is nice here, at least it is dry and sunny. I may take Flick to the park after school.
Catch up with you both later,
Lots of love
Loux
1/4/08 10:47
I mean out posts HAHAHAHA!!.No wonder I don't want to do me coursework I can't spell!!!.


















Good morning Ladies
Ladies where HAAAAAAAAAA
Just got colourful this morning
Thought i would brighten up your day
LMAO (cool)
WHERE ARE YOU LOU? Was you doing some work yesterday didn't see you on msn LOL
Back to being serious hope you are both ok and kids are well,What happened to you Jo on msn was you ok, you never came back
lol
Well today so far looks nice out but i bet its cold, well not up to much today my sis is coming round later, going to have to get clothes sorted out to take with us, i can't beleive its Wednesday already, Kim has already said not to pack to much as we are only going for the weekend and there is a washer there LOL, Well i will say bye for now hopefully catch up with you both soon, got to get Kai his breakfast as he has woke up and he is a typical man needs his cereal as soon as he gets up
Hugs to you both