i,m a older lonely 45 year old mum to 5
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9/10/08 22:45
9/10/08 22:45
Hi. It's amazing how much an 18 year old has in common with a young baby.I still get phone calls when i mam on my way to work saying ''I can't find myt socks'' etc...My house is mad! But i love coming home from work to a full house (athiough it has become more of a sort of hotel for my eldest son!) xxx
9/10/08 11:01
Hello i'm 42 and i have 4 children ages 21 ,10 , 3 and 11 months,i find most mothers i come into contact with on a daily basis are younger mothers,would be great to chat to some my own age.
3/10/08 21:51
Hi Im 42 and have 5 children- aged 10 months to 18 years!xxx
4/9/08 16:18
Hi Debbie,
I'm from "thought I'd join you" in the older moms as well!! Come across and have a chat if you want - be great to have another on board!!
Jan.
4/9/08 12:51
Hiya
Its called "Thought i'd join you' we are very friendly, pop in and take a look.
I'm Angela, by the way, i have 2 boys aged 11 and 2 and i love them dearly, but sometimes i'm glad to come to work for a rest if you know what i mean,
Hope to speak soon.
Angela xxx
4/9/08 11:36
sarah which thread is it please
debbie x
4/9/08 09:06
Hi Debbie
I only have the one 2 year old son and I'm 43. Started late.
You'd be wlecome to join our thread 'Thought I'd join you....' pop on and say hi to the girls, their a friendly bunch.
Sarah
3/9/08 16:18
well kids have gone back to school today and feel lost my 3 year old is only at playschool 3 times aweek 2 full days and 1 morning and thats bad enough lol i,m mad but i miss them so much
2/9/08 00:03
hello to you well its nice to know there are a few of us about
do you feel lonely sometimes well not lonely really just out of the sync feeling old !! i have a really big family my youngest is my own mums 37th granchild and she has now got 40 great grandkids so i don,t feel lonely in that respect just old while all my neices and nephews are with the mates and stuff i feel to old ! do you know what i mean there,s no older mums like me around me ! so i feel lonely in that way ? hope i,m not confusing you to much lol i am so so happy being a mum again i was 17 with my first one so i,ve been there done that and this time i,m enjoying it more i think ! i love to watch my 2 youngest play with my grandkids it must be confusing for some people while out some calling me nanny and some mummy lol
debbie
1/9/08 20:31
hi i am jackie have 5 kids 22 21 19 15 and 2 , my grandson is also 2 so it can be confusingfor people when we go out with them, i am 44 and i know how you feel seemed to have more friends with kids when i was younger but now all my friends are working full time with all their kids grown up. can be linely .nice to find this forum and nice to see that they are other people in the same boat as me
31/8/08 15:04
Hi Debbie, I'm Trudi, 41 years old and my son Adam is 15 months old. I felt really old when I first had my son, my friend is ten years younger than me and the midwifes and hospital used to say well you are an old mum thanks!
31/8/08 14:45
hi i also have 2 grandsons older than my dd shes 8 mnths ,when were out together it gets confusing
31/8/08 11:18
well nice to meet you charlie
i,m glad i,m not the only one ! my kids are my life , i also have 2 adorable grandkids to so confusing when i,m out with all 4 of them lol my grand daughter is 4 and grandson is 2 so my littleist who 3 is in between was your little one planned ! mine was,nt my 8 year old was a shock to but my 3 year old was an even bigger shock ! but like i said i live for them just that i feel old and lonely at the moment
hope your having a nice day
debbie
30/8/08 21:32
Well i am 40 and have my twin sons who are 21, my other son who is 19, i have a dd who is 19 months and my ds who is only 5 months. I know how you feel. There are not many older mums around here [ not that i have met them!!!!] There are plenty on bounty so never feel alone. xxx
30/8/08 15:23
well hello to eveyone i,m a mum of 5 and my eldest is 27years and my youngest is 3 years my others are 25/15 and 8 so i have a big gap !! i sort of feel so lonely to be honest i was a very young mum and there seemed to be a lot of us around at the time and i felt i fitted in !! now being 45 and having a 3 year old i feel left out ! please don,t think i,m not happy being a older mum there just doe,nt seem to be as many ! i feel like a nanny while in the park etc theres no one i know around were i live in the same boat as me so i feel lonely i live in plymouth i expect there is mind you feeling just like me !and would love to meet up with older mums don,t think you have to be my age lol just like a bit more in comman being a older mummy
thanks for reading this
debbie







Hi. It's amazing how much an 18 year old has in common with a young baby.I still get phone calls when i mam on my way to work saying ''I can't find myt socks'' etc...My house is mad! But i love coming home from work to a full house (athiough it has become more of a sort of hotel for my eldest son!) xxx