High risk pregnancy
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anyone had a stitch
4/8/08 12:25
4/8/08 10:12
clarian, my thoughts are with you at this difficult time, i am so, so sorry for your loss.
As you say he has his brother & sister to play with in heaven, he will be taken care of.
Now you take care of yourself.
Lots of love to you and your family, i will pray for you all. Kate xxxxxxxxx
3/8/08 23:29
I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard Him say."A Mother has a baby"
This we know is true
"But God can you be a Mother,
When your baby's not with you?""Yes, you can," He replied
With confidence in His voice
"I give many women babies,
When they leave is not their choice.Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for the day.
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay.""I just don't understand this God
I want my baby to be here."
He took a deep breath and cleared His throat,
And then I saw the tear."I wish I could show you,
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child's smile,
With all the other children and say...'We go to Earth to learn our lessons,
Of love and life and fear.
My Mommy loved me oh so much,
I got to come strait here.I feel so lucky to have a Mom,
Who had so much love for me.
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My Mommy set me free.I miss my Mommy oh so much,
But I visit her every day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillow's where I layI stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
And whisper in her ear.
Mommy don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I'm here.'"So you see my dear sweet ones,
your children are okay.
Your babies are born here in My home,
And this is where they'll stay.They'll wait for you with Me,
Until your lesson's through.
And on the day that you come home
they'll be at the gates for you.So now you see what makes a Mother,
It's the feeling in your heart
it's the love you had so much of
Right from the very startThough some on earth may not realize,
you are a Mother.
Until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day
and know that you are the best one!"(((HUG)))) you are in my thoughts and prayers x x x x x x x x x x
3/8/08 22:46
*** class="comment">well you guys, i never did make it to 24 weeks - little boy was born sleeping this afternoon. the ironic thing about all this, is that the stitch was holding my cervix closed just fine, buti had an infection. went in this morning because i didn't feel right, and they couldn't find a heart beat. been a terrible afternoon. just hope now that my baby boy is now playing with his his brother and sister in heaven.
***>3/8/08 10:32
Clarian - Just wanted to wish you the best for tomorrow's appointment, i shall be thinking of you.
Kate xxx
29/7/08 16:52
Megulemoo - is your c-section still going ahead Thursday?
29/7/08 16:51
Hi Clarian
That sounds so much better. I don't think the bladder being full has that much effect on the scan, i always go to the loo whilst waiting and my consultant never comments. Surely she would have had to tell you if she felt the funneling was getting worse? I say look at it as a huge positive and you only have less than a week to hold on now and you can look at steroids. My dd had them at 29 weeks, now i know it is a massive difference to a 24 weeker but she was the only one on the unit who received two doses and the only one who could breath by herself, she out-shone some babies at 34 weeks!! Now if that isn't evidence that steroids work i don't know what is!!!
I have been back today. He is still hanging on although he has dropped down, he isn't engaged just low. He has been head down for weeks. She isn't too concerned by this but my placenta is low too. Back in two weeks to review, may be a c-section for me! I don't really care just want him here and healthy!! He weighs 5lb 4oz can you believe?
Really pleased about your news though and i hope you have better treatment at this hospital, i have been so lucky with mine it seems.
I shall now go and find a breeze to sit in, i am soooo hot!!!
Take care, rest lots and good luck Monday xxxxxxx
29/7/08 11:20
hi megulemoo,
only just read your post - sorry haven't responded earlier. Hope that you managed to get through Sunday ok - it must have been soo difficult for you. Take care xxx
29/7/08 11:17
Well, girls, went to a different hospital yesterday to see a new consultant, and I am so much happier. TBH, she didn't really say much different to the others, but she was much less doom and gloom. She actually scanned me myself (the other one didn't even look at the scan!), and although my bladder wasn't full, she couldn't see no obvious problem. I'm just convincing myself now that full bladder or not, if there was something serious, the consultant would be able to pick it up- do you think so? Also bearing in mind m last scan was almost 2 weeks ago when the funneling was seen, surely if it had gotten any worse, this would have shown u in the scan? Anyway, I'm back down there next Moday or another scan and a chat about steroids and things. Oh, also, as she also worked out that I was 23 weeks yesterday, so that suits me fine too! I'm now 23+1! xxx
27/7/08 15:52
Clarian - Brilliant news!! I was begining to get worried as we hadn't heard from you. Hope Monday goes well, let us know how you get on and don't over do it!!!!
Megulemoo - Thinking of you and your babies, may they rest in peace, i am sure they know their Mummy and Daddy love tham and still think of them. Lots of love xxxxx
27/7/08 15:11
hi ladies,
hope you don't mind me sharing with this you but i am having a sad day today.
*** class="comment">thank you.
1 year ago today my emma was born sleeping and my thomas was born but lived only an hour.
mummy and daddy will never forget you both.
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***>27/7/08 12:14
hi julie - thanks for that xxx
27/7/08 11:40
hi Clarian,
ive been following your story as we are exactly the same gestation, due 25th nov. I am so hoping that you and baby make it through, i lost my little girl at 27 weeks, she lived for a few hours but she was very poorly due to not having any fluid since 16 weeks. I think about you alot and i just wanted you to know that.
Lots of love and best wishes
ju and 22+5 bump.xx
26/7/08 23:38
I just want to also appologies for getting your name wrong every time - I try my hardest to remember but I'm dyslexic and my spelling checks won't remember it for me - sorry x x x x x x x x x x x x
26/7/08 23:29
So glad your still hear x x x x x x x x x xx
Really pleased to hear from you Clairan.
Each day counts - good luck for monday and if necessary you get fetched from the car in a wheel chair - don't go overdoing it - let's keep your little one glued is as long as possible.
x x x x x
26/7/08 12:22
Hi ladies! Well, I'm still here, just haven't been able to get to the computer. I'm 22+4 now, so getting closer and closer by the day. Have appt on Monday with a different consultant at a different hospital to see if they are any more helpful. Take Care and I'll keep you updted xxx
24/7/08 08:30
Hi, yes 32 weeks now, back at the hospital next week for progress report. Not doing too bad, really tired, i suppose thats the thing with resting when possible, the little fitness you have soon disapears!
Can't believe you are going to meet your baby in a weeks time, you are so lucky, i bet it will be like a massive weight lifted from your shoulders, i cannot wait for this pregnancy to end.
I do hope Clarian is ok though,i will keep praying for her.
Take care and enjoy your last week of waddling and worry!!! xxxxx
23/7/08 21:24
Still no word from Clairan - I'm still keeping everything crossed for you x x x x.
Yep 1 week tomorrow for me - you must be on the single figure weeks countdown too?
How's it's goinng, had a bit of a scare last week and I was in hospital for a bit while they considered bring my section forward - but no such luck I'm afraid, at least I'm home now and I know baby is safe.
x x x x x x x x
23/7/08 09:07
Clarian - getting worried now, is everything ok? - Really hope so xxxxxx
Megulemoo - How's things with you? Home straight for you now, you are so lucky!!! xxxx
21/7/08 08:27
How's thing Clarian?
Thinking if you xxxx
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Clarion,
I am so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little boy, my heart aches for you and your family.
Rest in peace little one.
Love ju.xx