my dp parents are wonderful with my daughter they took dd on straight away as there grandaughter and she adores them as much as they adore her .

they treat both my girls the same , they are jw s so they dont do birthdays or christmases but they spend time and attention on both my girls , and are always trating them both .

my ex partners parents on the other hand arnt interested , my dd was 5 months old before they came to see her and they only live 20 miles away !

think they have seen her poss 5 times and she wouldnt know them from adam .

yep, ive got a 6 yearold dd and weve got a 13 mth old together, df has taken dd on as his own weve been together nearly 3 years and she calls him dad, his mum ignores my dd yesterday for example, she called round and popped her ehad over gate into living room, made a big deal of saying hiya to my son and didnt even look at me and my daughter, my df has had enuf of her at the moment so he said to my daughter 'im sure shes seen u aaliyah she just hasnt said hi' his mum said he was a pratt and of course she said hi (which she didnt) so he said said no its always about morgan (my son) u never acknowledge aaliyah. she just laughed it off so it remains to be seen if next time we see her she will actually speak to  my daughter or not. She also annoys me when she rings cos if my daughter answers the phone she says 'is kev there' rather than is ur dad there. Shes also never said if aaliyah can call her nan so at the moment i dont tell morgan that she is his nan we dont see her much anyway and its never come up yet but either both kids call her nan or neither do its her fault if she cant accept my dd everyone ekse in the family does .

Does anyone's LO have these? Do they treat LO different? DPs mum is generally good with DD but sometimes she makes the difference blatant. DD is 6 this week and I been with DP for 4.5 years so not like new relationship. For example this week. DP and his mum have fallen out and she has decided to spite my daughter, who adores her, by not coming to her party now. Am I being oversensitive? x