my lo will not be calling my mils bf grandad or anything of that nature! its first name terms! (its a new relationship!)

I'm a step grandma and their real grandma tried to call me nanny Emma but at 26 with 2 kids of my own under 5 it just felt wrong. I get called Emma, so we have Grandad and Emma on our cards. The poor kids has it confussing enough with his dads parents, his grandma and her partner who he calls gandad I think, his step grandparents and then us!!!!

Do what you feel is best, I know she has married him but that doesn't make him a grandad. Even more so as your step dad of 20 years i still in his life and your dad.

Emma

I don't see why not tbh. My DH parents are both remarried. His natural grandparents the kids call nan and grandad but the step-grandparents are called Nanny Sara and the other Grandad Roy. Why don't you just leave your child to decide what to call him. He might really get on with him and want to call him grandad or he might want to use his first name.

i cant see y she is gettin angry about it especially as we have already discussed it an all was ok, wats suddenly changed her mind is that we had a party on sunday for ds 1st birthday an my mum an new husband there, my dad an his wife of 25 yrs an my stepdad and of course we were sayin to ds theres grandma etc an new husbands name an she cant c y he wont b grandad.  Hope makes sense......

I would say no, my grandkids wont be calling my partenr grandad when he moves in ( me & my husband split after 30 years)

hi advice please

my mum recently split from my stepdad of 20+yrs but ds still will call him grandad

she has met sum1 an just got married after 12mths which i know is quick

we have just argued over the fact that her new husband is not grandad, her argument is that both my stepparents will b grandad an grandma so y sud he not get 2 b called grandad even thou we had same conversation 6mths ago an she agreed wit me