Oh hun, Im so sorry for your loss. You have every right to grieve, just because you didnt know at the time, that was still your baby and now you know you are going to feel the pain.

Im sending all my love to you and your family, your in my thoughts.

ps your df sounds like a real sweetheart, bless him xxxx

aww hun i realy feel 4 u i lost my 1st preg last september, it was 7 weeks after my period but when i had an internal scan when i started 2 bleed n get pain the preg was dated at 5 weeks. my periods r irregular n r anything between 4-7 weeks apart but i had a preg test at the dr n began 2 mc 2 days after i found out n lost my lo 11 week after i started 2 bleed. i now have 15 week old twins!

ur dp sounds realy sweet saying that, big hugs 2 u

xx

sorry to hear about this, you're probably in shock at the moment and will understand your feelings better soon, that's a sweet thing to say about trying again.  I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks so knew I was pregnant but nothing was going to happen by itself so ended up having to have ERPC.  Very distressing but we decided to try again after 3 months and fell with DS nearly straight away.  I do still think about it sometimes but it does get easier xxx

Hi, sorry for your loss.  I had a mc years ago, I woke up in the middle of the night in pain and just automatically put my hand down there and I was covered in blood, I then started passing clots.  I went to the doctors and they sent me to the hospital and they confirmed, I had, had a mc.  Like you I never knew I was pg.  I was'nt really upset about it, just sort of numb iykwim, but we did decide that we would like another child, I never even had another period and fell pg with ds2. xx

sending u big hugs

hope your ok

xxxxxxxxxxxx

hey all well last week a started bleeding which i ashumed was my period but it was very very heavy lots of clots and really painful.... im on the mini pill and since being on that my periods have calmed down but this was abnormal...anyway that lasted about 6 days and then monday i started bleeding again, again lots of pain etc, so had to go to walk in centre as couldnt get appointment at doctors...they said they will fax doctors and get me a appointment as they think it might be a miscarriage.....anyway i went yesterday and they confirmed that t was but really early on in the pg.

only thing is i dont no how to feel as i didnt no but still feel sad that this lil life has ended, and feel bad for not knowing i was pg as i have a lo who is 2 1/2 so should  of know the signs.

sorry its of topic but im mainly in this forum now.dp said last night he nw wants to start trying and in own words he said " id rather have a baby with you then go on honeymoon to newyork as the baby would be with us forever" aww

dont know what to do now.

thanks for reading and sorry again.. x