hi there doll,im sorry but i have to agree with "nibblesabit" the only other thing i would add is my partner was cheated on by every other ex hes been with but he has never been like that with me so the thing im thinking is as HE got a guilty concience cos they do say the one doing the dirty is the one to do accusing sorry to say but you sound sure the babies his so for all the humiliation and upset hes caused you  i would get him on jeremy kyle and  make him eat his words in front of thousands cos you know pregnancy is stressfull enough without him giving you all that added stress,if it was me doll hed be out the door the minute dna was mentioned,cos that  has got to be the most degrading thing he could have said to you,i really do hope it all works out for you,but dont stress yourself out cos it aint good for lo or you tc doll.xxxx

the thing is dna test results are only 99.999% accurate so from the way u say ur other half is hell still think its wrong and that hes the 0.0001% that had a dodgy test

Unless you have behaved in a manner that would make him think you cheated on him (lying, sneaking about etc.) then to be honest, I would tell him where to go.

I personally would not put up with that.

However, It is apparent you love him, so I suggest what the previous poster said.

If he refuses, kick him to the curb.

Also, I hope he has money, DNA tests are not cheap.  Unless he wants to go on Jeremy Kile to get it paid for.

Honestly though, getting a DNA test wont make his issues go away.  He has to seek professional help or it will never end.  Is this the way you want your relationship to be?  Is this the way you want your child to see how relationships work?

Hugs to you, you have some hard times ahead of you.

I suggest that if he wants to save your relationship you go to see a RELATE Counsellor to help him with his problems of trust, and hopefully to secure your future relationship. 

Asking you to have a DNA test is a bit of an insult if you've never done anything to make him suspect you of cheating.

This needs to be sorted NOW before the baby becomes mixed up in all his issues and suffers as a result.  I'm afraid that if it is not sorted properly, then things are most definately going to get worse, if not for you, then for the baby when it arrives.

Arrange an appointment with RELATE for some counselling asap.  If he refuses to go, then, personally i would give him the ultimatum that he comes with you or the relationship is over.  Be patient and approach the subject carefully, your bf may need a little time to come around to the idea that he has a problem, so don't mention that it's his problem, just say that you feel you both need to see a counsellor for your relationship to progress.

It's better to be on your own, than with someone who doesn't trust you, believe me. 

im aving trouble with my dp

weve been together just over a year n in jus under 4weeks il b aving his baby but...........

he dont believe he is his n keep accusing me of cheating on him, i have never cheated on any1 but he is addiment our baby is not his n keeps being really mean about it, he even wants a dna test to prove me wrong but i know 110percent that this baby is his iv told him he can av a dna test done if he really wants n that when it comes bac his i will frame it on put it on the celing so everytime he looks up it will b there.

i dunno what to do or how to get him to believe me is there any1 out there going through the same thing????

he was cheated on b4 and is very paranoid about everything i do, he never believes a word i say n allways accuses me of lying to him but im not and iv never done anything that would make him think im doing the dirty

i dunno what to do i love him so much n would never hurt him but he is hurting me everytime he accuses me of stuff everyday its summit different n i dont think i can handle it anymore i dont wanna lose him but all this is ruinin us can any1 please help me