yes sex has defo been btr 4 me since i had my son, thought it would never b the same again ! can u use the mini pill? i carnt use the pill, but this has been good 4 me, tho i might try the implant after this 1 as i dont want anymore 4 a long time, id go 2 get it sorted out soon tho, as ive heard ur more firtile after having a baby? xxxxx

just make sure you sort out your contraception - my friend had sex once from falling pregnant with her little one to now (she's 6months) and she's pregnant again!! It only takes once!

Thats great i thought i was the only 1 that wanted 2 resume sex after 8 days. Its just that i love making love with my hubby but i suppse i'll just have to wait till i can't get contraception (sp) as we do not like using condoms and they are not 100% reliable. I can't use the pill as i have elipsey (sp) and can't use certain contrapection

we resumed after bout 1week,pah!! we took it slowly like but it was fine. a vaginal birth dos wonders  to your nerve endings down there. it seems to activate ones u didnt know u had. for me personally, sex felt so much nicer after having a baby, not that i didnt enjoy it be4. dos anyone else agree?

There is no set time limit. Everyone is mentally and physically different.

After my first, I couldn't even walk properly for 6wks so sex was the last thing on my mind. I think we done it when dd was about 5mths old.

After my second I was physically a lot better and we got back to it when ds was 4wks old.

After my third I only bled for 6 days and was back to it after 2wks.

Everyone is so different.

TT 11wks.

i dont think theres a time limit on it hun, just when u feel ready, n depends on tears n things, i think it took me about 2-3 mnths with my son, but i did tear pretty bad n i was scared, but i know 1 friend who did it in 2 wks n another who it took 5-6 mnths, i think once uve sorted out contaception its whenever u feel like it xxxxx

How soon after having a baby should someone resume having sex.