Hi beckie, i had that after my 1st DD. Dp assurefd me i felt great but i couldnt feel any plesure. It soon came back dont worry. Just so nice and slow and tell dp what to do you will soon be back to normal trust me!

I'm still tight and dp said so, but i just didn;t get anything out of it.  I felt like a teenager again thinking is this it lol!

we've not done it yet but then i had via section this time round she's now 5 weeks and i actually can't bear the thought of it at the moment.  After my other 3 I had a 2nd degree with each one after the first i was stitched up wrong and it hurt like hell every time until i had my second child then after him and my third one it was fine although he complained it wasn't as tight anymore at least he can't say this time with it coming out a different way pmsl

I'm the total opposite i enjoy it more now and it was more intense than normal and can't get enough of him now. " me it felt like my garden hole has shrunk lol lol..

Ok, this is embarassing but me and dp did the deed properly for the first time yesterday and I felt nothing (obviously I could feel him inside me, but there was no chance of an orgasm iyswim) .  I don't know if it's cos we were using condoms (I absoloutly hate them) or just because.  I had an episiotomy and we have tried a couple of times prior to this but i just found it too painful so we had to stop.  Anybody else had this?