becareful my ex husband used to tell his girlfriend allsorts about me but would always be trying to get back with me or be best of friends behind her back.  the way i look at it if they have no kids together then there is no reason why he should be friends with her, i dont mean they have to argue all the time but there is no reason to keep contact x

His flat mates boyfriends party...... He has a female flat mate!!!!!!??????

I would leave him to stew.

Emma

Advice needed please. I met a new man, we were getting on really really well. He sent me a text tonight saying I was wonderful. I popped round to see him unexpectedly tonight with the kids and he looked really sheepish. He eventually said that his ex was coming to pick him up as they were both invited over to his flatmates boyfriend's house. I made a quick exit and she turned up whilst i was loading the kids in the car. I then sent him a text dumping him. He insists it was innocent and i believe him but that's not the point. He didn't tell me about it, she has treated him really badly until she encountered some problems last week and i feel totally humiliated.

What should I do? He's sent me a text saying he was just trying to be nice to her but i think he should have phoned me or driven over here to apologise.