Why dont u print off some info off the internet that says its safe to have sex before 12 weeks and show it to him.... then seduce him, lol x x x

Explain that there is no problem unless a person in medicine eg the midwife or a doctor has said so.

I know that when women have had recurrant misscacriages then they are advised to abstain, but in your situation I don't think it's a problem.

Explain that it is more of a problem that if you are stressed, the baby is stressed and that is when there can be preoblems. Tell him that by getting the release you need you will feel much better.

Re assure him that if you felt there was a problem you wouldn't put yourself and the baby at risk.

Do you think he'd agree to oral?

Or some thing that did envolve puting things inside you?

If he is that worried he may not be able to preform any way.

I'd wait for the all clear at 12 weeks for full sex.

Emma

sorry dnt meant to gatecrash but op where u origionally laylasmummy and had a display pic as a clearblue pos preg test? jw as not seen u in dim for a while.

hi when  was pregnant i couldnt get enough sex i was horny all the time but i did have to wait till i got passed the 12 week stage because ive had 9 misscarrages and 1 still born my doc advised no sex till then just as a precation but wasted no time after 12 weeks lol

hi i have told him that but he seems to have it in his head that it could start me bledding or something - men!!!!!

im going to surprise him i think, maybe with his fave meal and dress up like a s*** hahah. if that doeant do the trick i dont know what will!

i am 10 weeks 2morrow and me and my partner have loadsa sex......i am at work durin the day and constantly horny, so as soon as i get home we are straight in the bedroom!

it will not bring on a miscarrge.....your baby is in your womb not in your vagina!

mayb tease him and arouse him by texts then dress up for him for when he gets home from work!

he will soon want sex with you then x

Ok so I have been complaining for a few days about not getting it enough. It turns out dp is scared sex will bring on a miscarriage and he is trying to wait till 12 weeks (im 9 now). I had a miscarriage last year and he is terrified it will happen again so wants to wait for the 12 week scan etc. I dont really share this fear I have a good feeling about this pregnanacy , we have a 15 month old laready an i had no problems having her. Im really frustrated and need a good hard seeing to lol. 3 weeks is going to kill me! How can I convince and reassure him that it will be ok. He is treating me like china and being an absolute star I can tell he is genuinely worried do you think i should just let it go?