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8/8/08 15:16
7/8/08 19:11
thank you hun i think i might go for the top idea ive tried the frank convo lol
but the i feel like im giving in.
7/8/08 19:00
Maybe he thinks as soon as he moves in things will change! He is playing 'safe' so it seems. With his ex being a cow that can't help matters either. Maybe if you don't mention it again he will come round to the idea in his own time then you know when he mentions it he really wants to move in with you. Couldn't you say something like 'I want you to move in and would love you too, but i want you to when you are ready but i won't wait around forever' Or the only other thing is to sit him down and have a frank talk with him and remind him you aren't his ex and nothing like her and why should your relationship be punished for it. If you talk to him and let him know exacly how this makes you feel he might realise and come round to the idea. xx
7/8/08 18:54
he has been married before and coz she was a cow i get the backlass. he isnt ready for commitment but we spend every day together unless he is working, he just dont want his name on the tenancy agreement, it just to official for him.
7/8/08 18:43
Hiya, has your dp told you why he doesn't want to move in with you yet? Does he spend much time with you? I would sit down and have a heart to heart with him before you make any rash decisions. Me and my dp moved in together only because he lived 4Omins drive away and i was pregnant at the time, i think if i hadn't of got pregnant we wouldn't be living together now. Talk to him and see what he says, maybe he is scared of the whole commitment thing...alot of men can be. xx
7/8/08 18:13
I dunno where to start...
my Oh is the most selfish pig ever,
We have been together 20 months and he dont wanna commit he dont even wanna move in yet, its stressing me out and getting me down i cant help but cry. i told him
i dunno whether just see if he will change as i have told him all this, or cut my loses and go.
ive decieded to move by myself if he want to procrastant then he can i have a word with my landlord and they will help me! wooo!! going to see somewere on monday