Maybe mine, yours and a certain percentage of people on here, have had their sex drive pack it's bags and go off on holiday together.

Mine has vanished also, so who know's what is going on.

I had the coil fittted last week, things were not great in the bedroom department, but now I am very self concious about things.

I am sure things well get back on track. Your lo is still young, so don't worry too much.

Oh I dont know if the pill or Anti D's have any effect on it tho..x

Hun I guess its normal to feel like this after after giving birth, i know i did for ages,and even now I sometimes have no sex drive at all,Im sure in time it will return..but you can do things to get you in the mood if you want,like watch a nice movie together (sexy movie),a nice bath,lots of foreplay etc..and use your imagination too,as thats a very powerful tool..

ive got 2 girls age 12 and 4 and a 12wk old little boy. and since having my boy ive got no sex drive. i still get horny but when we get down to it all my bits dont seem to work, ive got no sensation in my clit and it just ends up a disaster. its really p***ing me off now cos when i was pregnant and before, i was having it every day and enjoying it. im on the pill and fluxotine (for depression) so i dont know if its that doing it.

has anyone else been like this or is it just me. and anyone got some advise or tips.

thanks jackie