i can understand why you feel so badi but its not really any thing to do with you. i doubt he feels your crap ethier.

so why not make it a game night where you show each other what you like, it'll be a laugh to

also it may work one night and then a different night hes in th emood for something else.

i understand how you feel completely.  i think the only way round this is to swallow your pride so to speak and ask him exactly what wasnt right and how you can make it better.  if he wasn't doing it for you wouldnt you rather he was. you may feel like s*** now but maybe it wasnt your technique maybe it was the amount of time.  maybe he meant uncomfortable as it needed more lubrication so that could be something to try, like a flavoured lube or similar plus even if it doesnt turn out to be sexy it's fun and fruity!lol

I am fed up and embarassed!

Have been trying to get my sex life with DH up and running again after our 3rd child (born in Feb). I've had a few problems with having a lot of bleeding on the mini pill, so we haven't really been having sex so much lately. My GP told me to come off the pill and almost immediately I have noticed an increase in my sex drive. 

Last night we had the most amazing night - like when you first get together you know? He really made me feel amazing and I really appreciated his effort. I wanted to do the same for him tonight. I got dolled up in my sexy underwear and did everything I could think of to turn him on and make him cum. After a good 30 mins (of sucking, rubbing etc) I ask him if it feels good. His response - "actually it's a bit uncomfy now". Great. Astmosphere killed. Confidence hits rock bottom. I give up, come downstairs and find myself on here asking for help. 

I'm not mad at him or anything, although I wish he'd said before I made a total idiot of myself that it wasn't doing it for him. But now I'm thinking what the hell did I do wrong? I must just be crap if those were my best moves and I crashed and burned. I don't even want to go up there now. 

Sorry - I know you can't really help, but just had to get it out. Thanks